Feeling really guilty please help

[chilipepper27]

Please give me some advice, I have a totally inappropriate crush on my husband and I mutual best friend, I love my husband more than a anything in the whole world and we have a great marriage so I can't understand why I feel like this , I don't want to feel like this , I have such a connection with this friend we are almost the same person , and not seeing him doesn't seem an option because we are both really close to him , I feel so guilty I feel likenthe worst person ever , I would never act on it I know how lucky I am to have
my husband , has anyone been inthis situation before ?any advice? Ps sorry for the rambling

If you're not going to act on the crush then I wouldn't get into too much of a sweat about it.

Just let it be the crush that it is. If it's inevitable that you and your husband are going to be spending lots of time with this man then embrace the crush, don't take it too seriously and maybe even try and enjoy it! It may well wear off pretty quickly anyway. As long as you're not acting inappropriately with this guy in front of your DH then really it's nothing to worry about, IMHO.

You've already said you love your husband and are very happy with him, so I don't think you need to feel too bad about this. Crushes happen.

I don't flirt with this man, but we are sort of like magnets we bounce of each other , he looks out for things he knows I would like etc but nothing is hidden from my husband there is nothing sneaky going on , I should maybe just try and enjoy the crushy feelings especially because I'm safe in the knowledge I would do nothing whatsoever to jeopordise my marriage , I must mention though it's not the first time I have had these feelings for him they sort of come and go I just wish I could shakenthe guilt off