Hello ladies
You know if you have a good friend who is essentially lovely but can be highly irritating, and you mainly just manage to laugh about her foibles to yourself... say that one day she'd just been a bit TOO flakey and a bit TOO precious, and you'd just had a bad day and blurted out to a mutual friend about how annoying you found her, etc etc, is it very bad?
I know that bitching is horrid, and I know that most people's irritating foibles are down to insecurity, etc, and I know that I'm very far from perfect myself, but sometimes I just can't stop myself spewing forth. I hate it when other people do it, and if I do I hate myself for it afterwards, and bend over backwards to be nice to the bitchee, which I suppose makes me two-faced into the bargain.
Dear ladies, tell me you do this too. Or, if you don't, tell me how you keep your patience! A lot of muttering to yourself down the street?
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herbaceous · 14/09/2010 20:50
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