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What is the relationship?

15 replies

pinkbasket · 12/09/2010 17:29

My husband's cousin has had a baby, what is the baby to my husband's children? Confused

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Tigerdrivesbackin · 12/09/2010 17:29

Second cousin once removed

pinkbasket · 12/09/2010 17:32

Thank you.

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quiddity · 12/09/2010 17:50

They are first cousins once removed.
Baby's mother or father is husband's first cousin, so the children are first cousins too.
But they are a generation further on--hence "removed."

pinkbasket · 12/09/2010 17:55

Thank you too. I was thinking just then surely they were first cousins and then I saw your post. I am going with first cousins. Will their children be second cousins to each other?

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kickassangel · 12/09/2010 17:56

second cousins.

your dh & his cousin = first cousin.

his children are her cousin once removed (one generation difference between them) and her children are first cousin once removed to your dh.

however, once both 'sides' have dropped down a generation, they become second cousins, i.e. they are the 2nd generation of cousins. as they are both the same generation, they are not 'removed'.

pinkbasket · 12/09/2010 17:58

So my dh and his cousin are first cousins but normally just known as cousins, yes?

Dh's children and his cousins children are second cousins to each other?

Dh is what to his cousins children?

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kickassangel · 12/09/2010 17:59

from wiki

The degree (first, second, third cousin, etc.) indicates one less than the minimum number of generations between both cousins and the nearest common ancestor. For example, a person with whom one shares a grandparent (but not a parent) is a first cousin; someone with whom one shares a great-grandparent (but not a grandparent) is a second cousin; and someone with whom one shares a great-great-grandparent (but not a great-grandparent) is a third cousin; and so on.
The removal (once removed, twice removed, etc.) indicates the number of generations, if any, separating the two cousins from each other. The child of one's first cousin is one's first cousin once removed because the one generation separation represents one removal

kickassangel · 12/09/2010 18:00

dh is first cousin once removed to his cousin's children.
1st cousin = how close they are to each other/common ancestors,
once removed = they are one generation different from him.

jetgirl · 12/09/2010 18:01

I thought they were second cousins. My cousin's son is my first cousin once removed, and my children and and cousin's ds are second cousins, no? Confused

pinkbasket · 12/09/2010 18:02

This is all so complicated.

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jetgirl · 12/09/2010 18:04

X posts kickassangel. Now I am not confused!

Tigerdrivesbackin · 12/09/2010 18:05

aaarrgh.

I'm with you pinkbasket. I have no siblings. Neither did my parents. it's all very relaxing.

and I don't have to have the buggers round for Xmas.

quiddity · 12/09/2010 18:06

Aargh, sorry! I worked it out in relation to your dh. Blush
kickassangel is right.

gingerwig · 12/09/2010 18:17

Kickass I want to kiss you! Sort of!
you have explained it really well

LittleMissHissyFit · 13/09/2010 00:46

oh thanks, this is brilliant, i was trying to understand who was what to whom in our family! Nice one!

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