have been seeing a guy for a couple years...never going to be anything serious on both our parts but I just can't forget him.
Not sure why as he is not attractive, he's old, unfit, couldn't even get it up half the time. But I'm slightly obsessed.
Have tried to break up with him and he just says "okay, if that's what you want". Maybe it's his nonchalance that does it?
He seems to love spending time with me, making love to me, but is so self-bloody-sufficient. I want to ask him if he ever felt anything for me at all. Why can't I let him go?
Please don't tell me to join a flower-arranging class. This goes down to my very core...he's rocked my world and I want him to keep rocking it, but I can't take his coolness.
He's spent loads of time, effort on me, so I can't just be nothing to him, or can I? We used to talk all the time about everything under the sun. He talked about our connection often.
Go on, give it to me straight. I'm going loopy here. But be gentle. It's not like I'm short of male attention...have a bunch of guys chasing me, but just not interested in them. Please help me get some perspective.