I have joined this evening to mumsnet and thought i would have a quick look around and i came onto relationship threads.
After reading a few threads which are really quite sad , honest threads i wanted to share my experience and hopefully encourage more people to share there sad but happy experiences to.
I am 26 years of age,I left my daughters father when she was just 18 months old after 5 years together, we had the perfect life on paper but i wasnt happy at all various reasons,It was just a miserable time. It was a very hard decision to make and one i didnt make lightly.
As i sit here today my daughter nearly six years of age the most polite happy adorable child you could meet i am happpy with my decision i have no regrets at all.
I just wanted to share to people that there is light at the end of the tunnel i wasnt cheated on, its just my life didnt work out the way i had planned which at that time did gut me, I am a completly different person nearly 5 years on i have my own house my own car i work part time and have just qualified as an accounting technichian. as well as this i now have a brilliant partner.
The time i was alone i am so very grateful for because of the relationship i have with my daughter it is perfect and nobody can ever take this away from me.
Her dad now has a son and is due to get married and we have a great relationship as parents to our child. She has a perfect balance between our homes.
Hope this gives people hope and inspires them to make the right decision even though it may not be the easiest to make
Good night mumsnet
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