Since DP and I got together he has lied many many times. At the beginning of the relationship he lied about his past, he lied about his ex, he lied about his day to day activities (like telling me he'd been swimming when he'd actually not left the house etc). I had it out with him, he said he recognised there was a problem and that he'd stop doing it. A few months passed and I just happened to come across a letter one day that suggested a major lie was in force. Dug a little deeper and it turned out he was lying about loans, credit cards and various other debts. We got that solved. Again he promised he'd stop lying. A few months went past and I found out he'd been lying about his current day to day activities, like telling me he'd popped to the bakery for lunch when really he'd gone to a resteraunt. I had it out with him again, this time he retaliated and asked why its such an issue when the things I'm on about don't even effect me. I said the point was he was constantly being dishonest. His excuse was "yeah but why do you care about where I had my lunch??" - he just doesn't get it, its the level of dishonesty, not the fact that he had lunch somewhere other than a bakery etc!
So again, he said he'd stop lying and just be straight with me from now on.
Now, a few nights ago he told me he was going out with a few blokes from work. He named one specific bloke. I said "ok".
This morning I logged onto the PC, went to facebook and he'd accidently left his logged in. On there was a message from a woman he works with about the night out they were going on. Not just the two of them, but a few people from work and she had arranged it.
So basically he's lied again. I text him and asked why he lied and his excuse was "If you don't care that I'm going, why are you bothered about who I'm going with?" I'M NOT! I'M PISSED OFF ABOUT YET MORE LYING!!
So is he right?? Am I overreacting because he's lying about stuff that doesn't affect me or am I right in being pissed off about constant dishonesty?