How do I take a friendship break?

[poshsinglemum]

I have an old friend who is doing my head in at the moment. We are quite close (both with dc) but it's not a very healthy relationship.

She's coming round for tea next week but tbh I need some space. I don't have the balls to sbe completely honest. I won't call her and hopefully the space will come natutrally.

I don't want to loose her completely btw.

Could you tell her you need some time to yourself for a while?

Could be tricky though because she'll probably ask why.

Maybe tell her you've got a very busy period over the next few months so won't be available to her as usual?

Why is she doing your head in? Is she just a bit needy at the moment? If so, she might really rely on the friendship, so you might want to think about how the break might hurt her before you embark on it. Although Earlybird makes a good suggestion, depending on the person involved, saying "I've got a busy period" can be seen through quite easily.

it's a good idea...it has worked for me in the past. Usually after a row I've asked for space. Or you could say you've lost your phone/internet down, depending on how you communicate and how much time you want to spend apart