I'm having a bit of a dilema at the moment. I'm wanting to return to work part-time as i am finding being at home all the time really difficult. My husband sees me wanting to work as me not being able to cope with motherhood, i feel guilty enough for feeling the way i do and without his support it's making me feel even worse. He says that we shouldn't have had another baby and that there certainly won't be anymore if i can't cope! I love my kids dearly but i feel that i would be a better mother and enjoy motherhood more if i had a balance between work and home life - i think it would make me appreciate the time that i do have with them more and give me more energy to do things with them. At the moment i just feel so fed up and feel so bored and just find myself feeling really trapped. I feel terrible for feeling like this! His solution is to go off and have a facial or five minutes on my own but he's missing the point i just feel i need a bit more, a bit more use of my brain. Lots of mothers work and aren't bad mothers for doing so so why do i feel so bad? I'm fed up with the housewife routine, sick of washing and cleaning! It would break my heart to leave my children but i'm at a loss as to what to do. I feel so selfish but need to do something.
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