I don't feel very attractve anymore, which I guess is the main problem. I've gone up a couple of sizes since I first met my DH and although I'm not big (size 14), I don't seem to wear the extra fat well.
It's all round my middle, so clothes are a real problem. As a result I never seem to find stuff that looks pretty or sexy and always end up in Jeans and loose tops. Very very different from when DH first met me. TBH I hate the way I look, like I'm perpetually pregnant.
DH and I seem to live together like a couple of friends sometimes instead of a married couple.
I can't help thinking that he just doesn't find me attractive anymore. I have tried to spice things up, but it really doesn't come natuarally to me and I just feel awkward about my body.
Don't know what to do to sort out my feelings, short of going on a massive diet and exercise regime which If I'm honest is unlikely with everything else I've got going on at the moment.
I should point out that my DH is as slim as when I first met him. It's me who's changed 