Do you ever think you might be traded in for a younger fitter model?

[charliecat]

I do, It may be because ive been with dp since I was 17, had 2 kids that have wrecked my body, put on a couple of stone and its now 9 years later..but sometimes I wonder when its going to happen, like its a cert it will. Just a matter of time.

Im 6 years younger than dp too toothache.

No, his loss if he ever did think that as well.

CC - Then why would you think that? You are a younger model to him!
I was 21 when I met DH. He was 27. His friends thought he was a right cradle-snatcher! Although he acts like a f""£ing 12 yr old most of the time!!!!

i do but dh is ten years younger than me , and we not getting on too well at moment

Funnily enough my dp and I were discussing this the other day with my sister and her dp. I was saying that I often feel really insecure when in the presence of a gorgeous woman, if my dp is there, basically because I've never been particuarly confident about how I look. The men said however, that if a gorgeous bloke walked in, they wouldn't feel insecure if we women looked at him because thats all it is, looking,; dp and sister's dp aren't arrogant (they're not like some blokes who thinks they're god's gift to women!), they just said they didn't look around and tend to 'judge' whether other blokes were good looking or not. Whereas us women (particulary me!) agreed that we do compare ourselves to other women on a regular basis. My body changed when I had my little one, and I'm very conscious of it, even though dp constantly reassures me that he finds me very attractive. I just think that us women are bombarded with TV/magazines/films where impossibly beautiful women are always shown, and feel we should live up to it. Any tips on how to cure my insecurities??!