Sex life - what do we do?

[teamWatson]

After reading a few threads on MN & deep down knowing that after the birth of our 3rd (2yrs ago) I would like to be a bit more active/adventurous in the bedroom.

Any Ideas on getting us back on track?

Why not try getting a fun boardgame like Monogamy? It has lots of good suggestions for increasing intimacy and the graded aspect of it is great for getting you both back in the frame of mind for enjoying sex and just chatting together as a couple about what you like and think about stuff. Putting aside some time on a weekend night for a glass of wine and proper evening together is the way to go.

Buy a book like Superhot sex or similar, there are lots on Amazon

Find out what ideas turn you on, what turns him on and then hope that they match or at least don't freak one another out!