He told me four months ago that he wasn't sure if he loved me and things have not been good since. He has made no attempt to work at our marriage but strangley we still get on, but only about stuff other than how he feels. He is very reluctant to talk, I have to drag things out of him. I have been to Relate but despite sometimes saying he will go he hasn't.
We have been together for 24 years, married for 17 and have 2 dc (14 and 10). We told them what was happening a few weeks ago and have just come back from a 'family' holiday which was ok and we all seemed to enjoy. I don't understand, it just seems a really weird situation. He swears he's not having an affair. Has anybody else been in this psition?