so he's gone away to think...

[BuzzingNoise]

dh left today to go to stay with his dad 200miles away to 'think'.
I plan to do a lot of cleaning to pass the time.
What else can I do? The waiting may well kill me.

Don't wait! Make a plan of your own while he's gone 'to think'

Post on here how you feel and all of your options.

Presume he means he's thinking about continuing your marriage btw?

I'm afraid I don't know your story, but my H is going to be doing the same thing next week. (He had an affair with someone, which is now over, although not necessarily over forever, hence the thinking).
He hasn't lived here for a few months. I did some things I couldn't do when he was here, almost planning to be single. I cleared out a room, intending to make it my son's playroom. I started running. I went out with my friends. I filled the fridge with food I love and he doesn't, so it usually doesn't get bought.

I think what I'm saying is try out the single life. Do some things that you can't do when he's around.

Him going will give you time to think too. Maybe you'll like being on your own. As much as I love my husband and would love the chance to try again, I've got a little used to him not being around and the thought of his stuff (and him) here again makes me a little uneasy. .

How's it going?