Having a wobble ;(

[whoknows2010]

Feeling very sorry for myself today :(

What the hell is wrong with me?
I have been told today I am attractive looking and have a great personality (by my very recent ex P). I gave him the best years of my life, children, have always been faithful and honest with him and loved him with all of my heart, so what is so wrong with me that I am not worth being with as a couple?

He never even tried everything to keep us together, just stopped loving me.

Sorry, like I said, feeling very sorry for myself, my confidence has taken a major knock and need to get some of the sadness out

Am sorry to read you are so sad. Only your partner knows why he has left but perhaps he has been taken you for granted and when you are apart he may come to his senses and realise he loves you and misses you.

hello whoknows

remember this is such a rollercoaster it is normal to have highs and lows with this. it is normal for your feelings to change hourly.

what made him say this to you do you think? you were doing very well a week or so ago weren't you? (i posted on your thread) do you think he could have seen you doing well and made a comment like this for selfish reasons (as in he is trying to keep you loving him and does not want you to move on??) I have found this pattern is starting to emerge with my and my h

every time i do something that shows me moving forward we have an emotional conversation that leaves me feeling like utter shite - no coincidence i am starting to notice.

Thanks, I dont know what is going on anymore, my head is such a mess.

I have been fine all week but had a bad day yesterday its to be expected I suppose.

I know thats its over and I have to move on but I feel like I need to have a rant at him to get all these feelings out, but as we're not together anymore he doesnt have to listen to it does he. (so I am forcing my emotions on a load of strangers on here instead)

Hope you are doing well arnbow- I'm guessing from the name change you are getting stronger :)

So sorry to hear.....Don't depend on praise from bloke. Start by boosting your own confidence....if you don't go to the gym then do so or play some sport.....pamper yourself a little...enjoy your own company.

we're all human and need love and appreciation. It doesn't make you needy or non-lovable. They're the ones with the problem, not you. Voice of experience, can't you tell?

Often a bunch of strangers is what you need to get things into perspective. I even called Samaritans...what wonderful people they must be. Always talk though and don't internalise....hope you are feeling better today. In a wretched place myself but keeping myself on track for my kids. GL X

fizzfiend makes much sense. Hope you are both okay today.