Bit of background here.
Moved back to my home town after living about 350miles away for nearly 4 yrs. DH, MIL, DC and I moved close to my parents so they didn't have to travel so far to see the grandkids (we live 2mins walk from their house) and also because my dad has cancer and can't travel long distances. We've lived where we are currently for 3+yrs and dad has been round on quite a few occasions, which is great considering how ill he is.
The problem is my mum. She just isn't interested in our LO's. An example would be, eg, she didn't call to see how our DS was after he'd split his head open and had to go to hospital yet, when my niece grazed her knee mum phoned to ask if she was OK.
I know we haven't done/said anything against her because she's told us herself.
Has anyone had a similar experience with member(s) of their family and what did you do?