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Its over - officially - what now?

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Citrus81 · 12/08/2010 07:02

After yet another incident of lying, hypocrisy and disrespect, I called an end to my so called relationship with DP last night. He agreed it was going nowhere (in other words, he can't be arsed to change his ways and would much rather me leave so he doesn't have to worry about it) and so it's decided we have officially split up. But ammicably - meaning I can still safely stay here until I can find a house.
So how does one act when living under the same roof as the ex? We're not arguining or anything, its just like room mates in a way, albiet a strained way ...

Any tips for surviving the next few months much appreciated!

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Citrus81 · 12/08/2010 07:03

Oh and the kids don't know, we felt it best that we carry on as normal around them so not to stress them out.

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ChippingIn · 12/08/2010 14:02

Months?? Why months? Surely it wont take that long to find a place for you and your DS?

So, if the kids don't know are you still sharing a bed?

Frankly, I think you should tell the kids, I think they will both be pleased about it and it will be less of a suprise when you move out. Also, then you can speak openly about finding a place, money etc

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