sex/erection problem.

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Dp has this problem.
I like a lot of sex, but say we have sex twice one day, then the following day he can get an erection, but cant orgasm. No matter what i do/he does.

he just ends up saying that he just doesnt think its going to happen. Doesnt matter how good a time ive had, i cant help but take it a bit personally.

hes early 30's doesnt smoke, goes to the gym regulary. Doesnt drink a lot. is not stressed soi dont really know why. I just wonder if im not good enough, or if he just doesnt fancy me??

It's normal and it's not a problem.

Three times in 24 hours he probably just wants a rest and a beer.

That's nothing, I've shagged DH continuously all day, pretty impressive as he works 40 miles away!

You mean he can last and last without coming?
Lucky you. That's not a problem, it's good news.

It happens. I'd bet that back in the day, he'd be ready for round two pretty quick, but couldn't come or took a lot longer to come.

Now, it's the same, but spread over longer period of time.

So don't worry. If he's not concerned, and you clearly hit the spot for him, then on the days that he doesn't get there, why get bent out of shape about it?

This seems to be pretty common. My DP is 31 and we're quite often at 5-7 times a day but I used to work with a guy who was only 26 and had the exact same problem - he ideally needed a day or two rest between sessions. I have a few male friends who just aren't into too much sex.... insane x

OMG 5-7 times a day, no wonder your username is happiestblonde!!!

Where do you find the time? I'm sorry to go off the original topic but, wow I'm impressed (and am NOT going to let dh read this - he might expect the same!)

Sal
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hahaha i'm not joking at all. our jobs make it better - i'm 'between jobs' and he's an academic. WIN.

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and he's pretty. yay.

SOCD - LOVE it, i have relate on speed dial.]

on an entirely different note - does anyone actually use speed dial?!

HB isn't it time for your next jump?

Op it's normal, don't make it a problem or you will start to make things into an issue, never good for blokes really.

there must be some sandpaper fanjo's around here, that's all I can

My first post on the relAtionships thread , I normally lurk around conception but this place is bonkers.op it's normal don't stress, my oh never had a problem with erections until about six months ago when it started to happen occasionally in the same way as you've described. I was completely freaked out and upset , blamed myself and panicked but saw a comedian with some friends this wknd who was talking about sex/age problems and was very funny but accurate about it all. We all got talking about it afterwards and all blokes have this sort of problem from time to time. Don't stress, he still loves you.

It's not a frigging erection problem!!!!!

It just means he's all spunked out.