Dp sometimes finds it difficult to obtain/maintain an erection so during foreplay he's constantly wanking himself to try and get it up. I find this quite off-putting to start with but there's other stuff too. He sometimes asks me to get on all fours so he can get a hard on, it makes me feel like shit to think this is the only way I can turn him on. He tries to put the condom on a floppy penis, everyone knows it has to be hard first, right? I've told him this and so now he just does it when he thinks I'm not looking. Then as soon as he gets it up he jumps on me and gets on with it before it goes down again. It just feels so awkward and forced and I'm finding myself less and less turned on the more we have sex like this. The other day we were messing around with foreplay, he kept stopping to fiddle with himself which was really frustrating to start with and then all I did was ask him to quickly plug in the laptop wire (it was right next to him) before it shut down with my work unsaved and that was it, hard on disapeared, no sex, highly frustrated me and I got the full blame as I'd "distracted" him. Why the hell should he need 100% attention to keep it up? I find it so annoying and off putting.