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How to increase sex drive?

5 replies

Paperdenim · 10/08/2010 23:43

I'm really struggling to get mine back,
used to be fairly high but know I'm happy with once a month tbh,
I do fancy dp alot but I could quite happily go without sex for a good few months!
Dp is beig very patient and kind but I'm so worried he'll get fed up eventually.it's been low for around a year now and have tried all sorts (have come off the pill:eating healthily)

I don't fantasise at all and I don't see fit men anywere/not attracted to anyone else. I don't think I'm depressed or stressed, but this really needs to change, I'm 27, this isn't what life should be like for me or dp!

Any suggestions and help at all? I'm desperate.

OP posts:
BalloonSlayer · 11/08/2010 08:53

Try a zinc supplement. I think it works (have DC3 to prove it).

raspberrytipple · 15/08/2010 21:32

Little and often, the less you have, the less you want. Look up someone like Tracy Cox.com, lots of advice and stuff on there. Everyone has dips in their sex drive from time to time so dont beat yourself up, youve probably just got used to not wanting it now. Hope it comes back soon!!

NoahAndTheWhale · 15/08/2010 21:34

Have no suggestions but empathise completely Sad

MsHighwater · 15/08/2010 21:37

Just to point out it's www.traceycox.com. There is a tracycox.com but I don't think there's much sex advice there...

raspberrytipple · 15/08/2010 22:37

Thanks mshigh, glad u knew who I meant-I'll look up the other one just out of interest

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