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Having a really shit day!!!

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StudiousSal · 10/08/2010 22:46

I finished with my ex approx 5months ago, after I found out he was having emotional affairs, e-mail, texting and arranging to meet other women, his ex.

Well today, I had to go to the town where we met, where we decided that we wanted to be together forever etc etc. It hit me like a ton of bricks, I even had to go along the river and cross the bridge where we stood at 2 o'clock in the morning planning our future together, all I could do was think back to how it was, we never rowed, the night before he left we went out for a meal he told me he loved me, the next day he left for his ex girl friend whom he said he still loved so much, the three years we were together had been a lie.

God it still bloody hurts so much, feel like I'm back to square one...

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Poshwellies · 10/08/2010 22:49

Sorry you feel horrible.Poor you Sad

But be safe in the knowledge that he was a tosser and you are better off without the lying cheating scummer.

Onwards and upwards and all that eh?

Tippychoocks · 10/08/2010 22:53

Oh, poor love.
You're not back to square one, I bet you've come much further than you think.
Have a bit of a wallow and a cry if you have to but remember that you are better off without the weasel and deserve to be with someone lovely. This too will pass Smile

Antalya1 · 10/08/2010 23:10

You have had a horrible day but without even knowing it you've taken another step forward and instead of this knocking the stuffing out of you for weeks, you'll pick yourself up much sooner. You've just faced one of your ghosts today, it does get better honest. By the sounds of it, at least for you this came out of the blue so there was no build up or expecting that it would end. Please believe though, it does get better.
I'm sending you a {{{{hug}}}}xx

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