Do we think he will call me?

[twodates]

Just back from first date ( from internet)
Really nice bloke. Non stop talk in starbucks for almost 3 hours.
Afterwards he said it had been really nice meeting me and that he had had a really really nice afternoon.

he hasnt got my number.. so he will have to contact me online...

what do you reckon the chances of a second date are?

well, he could have excused himself after an hour so 3 hours is looking very good.

What did he do when he left? Handshake, cheek kiss? Had you up against the wall?

foureleven

we just walked away as it was coffee shop in middle of shopping centre.

He didnt ask when i was next free.

oh.. is this not as good as i though..

He's a bloke. I have no idea.

But you could contact him.....

Nope, this is panning out exactly as mine and dps first date off t'internet!

ooh its great, he's doing a good job building up the excitment and not giving anything away.

he didn't ask for your number? Didn't mention seeing you again?

Tbh it sounds unlikely.

It was one date, with a man.

Don't read too much into it. If he contacts you he contacts you, if he doesn't he just wasn't that interested.

Please try not to waste too much emotional energy wondering what he will do or waiting for him to contact you.

If you want to see him again, invite him on another date.

In the meantime enjoy your life, how lovely that you can spend three hours in a coffee shop chatting to someone you got on wel with! That is great

oh - im not going to spend hours worrying. Ive another date with someone else tomorrow and one on wed and another for next weekend.

but he was quite nice and i wouldnt mind seeing him again. Will maybe email him monday/tue to say thanks for the nice afternoon and i had a time time. ( thats if ive not heard from him)

twodates the thing is, you really can't tell! It can have gone amazingly well, and then for some reason known only to them.. they sometimes don't call. It's a mystery to me

oh - i know that!!! ive had a few good first dates only to never hear from them again.

Its just that he seemed very enthuastic when he said he had had a really really nice afternoon.

Totally took me by surprise as he wasnt what i expected he was going to be and we had loads in common.

who knows.
men!!!

lol

They're a pain in the arse, is what they are

nope.
emailed him about 10 mins ago thanking him for a nice time and said i hope he didnt get too soaked on the way home.

we will see.

date on sunday went bloody awful - and he tried to kiss me and he text me the same day a few times and he asked me out again but i dont want to see him again... what do i say?

why cant i get second dates with the ones i like... just the ones that i dont?

Hes probably married if you met him online.

oh for goodness sake - not everyone from online dating is married.

Don't think he will contact you again, sure if he wanted to he would of took your number.

Never mind plenty more fish in the sea.
Maybe if you try someone you wouldn't normally go for you may have more luck.

I agree. He probably spent 3 hours with you because you're really nice and good company. If he was really in to you, you'd know.