i posted last week about exP ending our relationship. we had been having problems for a while and we knew it was on the cards but had decided to wait until at least this weekend coming (when he would be home- he is forces)so we could talk things through properly, but he phoned last monday and said he couldn't carry on, he wanted to end it.
so, i heard nothing form him (except a drunken phonecall early hours of saturday morning which i didn't answer and he didn't remember making) until today when he phones and behaves as if he isn't really sure if we have separated. asking me "are we together now or not?" when it was he who ended it last week and was adamant that it was what he wanted. so i told him yes that as far as i was concerned we were finished but i am determined to keep things amicable for the boys so we continued chatting and he told me about his weekend. he was away on a stag do that involved lapdancing clubs and alot of alcohol. he says he cant really remember all that went on as he was so drunk. anyway conversation ends and tehn later i get texts from him saying he really loves me and doesn't know why were are separated and wants to make things work. then later on FB chat thing, he is asking if he can stay here when he comes home at the weekend. i said yes but i mean on the sofa.
what would you make of all that?