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[SingItBack]

No doubt DH will read this as he did the previous thread, but I have tried and tried to think of another outlet for my feelings and there isn't one.

Don't need any input or sympathy, just need to put my thoughts down in print.

Yesterday I wrote quite a revealing/nasty post about how I felt DH did not understand how I felt re: looking after the children. No need to expand on that, suffice to say he looked at my history and read the post.

He has now disappeared in an almighty fury (sort of understandably).

I am left here feeling hurt, sad and angry.

Have name changed, although if he wants to find my post no doubt he will. Feel in a corner.....

BTW he is not abusive etc etc, and I suspect he has always rather disliked me.............

Anyway we have 2 childers, so doubt he will leave.

So folks, thanks for listening to that rather disjointed rant. No need to reply. Just needed an outlet.

yes, MLP it is. He always has had something of superiority complex .

I have said quite often to him, that he really doesn't like me, and he finds it hard to deny...But then I can be hard to get along with. I am a lawyer by trade and whenever we get into an argument, which he always looses, he says he doesn't like me.........

ssflower je non connaise voudrais parler francais? Mais ouis, c'est tres merde tout le temps......

Rafwife, with Mac's tis something like press apple and then speak double dutch...........

Far too much wine to continue along that route! Bon nuit

BTW you can probably CTRL-click on a mac to get the extra options.

Do you want to talk about it some more? You keep saying he has always disliked you - what has he done to make you think this?

Hope you are okay and can keep posting if you are finding it helpful.

Thanks BB, tis done to death I think. I will know more in the morning............

I'm fine, just hacked off actually that he looked at my MN discussions and used them against me!

Bon Nuit SS and thanks for your insight.

I remember the thread that hes read. It might do him some good

Just wanted to say good luck and remember we are still here whenever

Thanks bronze. Had a bit of a panic earlier that I would never be able to MN again...........thankfully folk showed me how to 'private browse'

Mebeez he will think about it and talk properly in the am.

Hi, I have the same problem re privacy. I use a mac, can delete or rather clear, History but how do I find and delete my cookies or cache or such. I saw them once, but dont remember where. Please help.

Good luck Singitback.

Baggy what browser are you using on your Mac?

I hope you sort things out. Everyone needs their outlet.

Safari Shaz10.

I know it's a public forum yadda yadda yadda, but don't think it's nice/kind for a partner to follow theirs online. I don't 'listen' to DP's conversations at cricket, for instance.

You know though that MN will delete your posts if you flag them up. Report the posts yourself and they can delete if that's any help.

Sorry you are having a crap time.

Baggy it's dead easy then. Just go to the Safari menu on the bar at the top (next to the Apple) and click on "Reset Safari". It gives you options about how much to clear. Then quit and reopen (I don't know if you have to but it puts my mind at rest!) And choose Private Browsing from that same Safari menu.

Thanks everyone for your kind words last night. I really felt like I was in a corner.

However, with the break of day, all was resolved. I now have my own secure log in with my own secret password, so I can chat away to my heart's content without fear of being spied upon.

But twas DH who set all this up for me. When I got up this morning it was all done.

To be fair, I don't think he really likes happening upon me slagging him off to all of MN either.

Suffice to say calm has been restored to the SIB household, and sated by a shag, DH is fast asleep and dreaming of grouting the windows, I expect.

Thanks again, your concern and chat really helped me. What would I do without MN

Hey SIB, glad to hear a shag fixed all!!!!