can i just start by saying that i love my dh very much. emotionally feel connected, physically very attracted.
sometimes, i wonder if he fancies me, feels the same. i know he loves me but i don't feel adored anymore. it doesn't feel like me and him against the world. i know that honeymoon feeling has ended but i still feel like it about him.
i miss the spontaneous affection and sex. i miss the feeling of someone looking at you, watching you because they think you're amazing.
am i terribly self-centred?
i think i need to be with someone who shows outwardly how much he loves me more than dh has done in recent years.
when we first get together and went out, he would always catch my eye, talk to me, find a moment for a quick snog! now when we go out, i barely see him/talk to him. when i asked him about it he said it's because we spend all our time together, which is true i s'pose.
do i crave too much attention? what am i supposed to do? the inside of my head expects life to be like a romcom. and it is not.