Before I go into detail DH and I are on the verge of seperating, we had talks nearly a 3 weeks ago and agreed to focus on us over the summer holiday and really try, I admit, as I have on here before that I had met OM and was having an emotional affair. I ended it before the above talks, very difficult, but needed to put him out of my mind.
I was on DH phone looking at FB when he was showering and then had a look at his Inbox as a message flashed up, I then saw a msg thread to one of our mutual friends- he started it with 'fuck me' she then jokes about meeting him behind a bush etc. I told another friend who was there at the time of the texts (they were all at a friends bbq and i'd gone home with lil ones) she said they were openly joking about sneaking off for a quickie!!! but it was all drunken jest! On the one hand I feel like, 'god we're so over and my morals aren't brilliant' so I'll ignore it! but on the other I feel I should say it isn't all me as he too is being inappropriate!! He's the one who is keen to really work on our marriage whereas I mostly feel we've run our course and are leading seperate lives anyway! any thoughts welcomed??