Just thought i would ask your opinion on some weird stuff that has been going on with someone who i used to describe as my BF. To cut a long story short, even though we led quite different lives - she PR girl in London with on-off relationship with boyfriend, me settled down in Berks with DH and DS - we remained friends (from university) always chatted on the phone and emailed etc. Started to get less and less and she then split up with boyfriend which i found out by accident. She was devastated but didnt want to talk to me about it (was never in when i called) and when tried to arrange to meet up she was too upset to see anyone etc So i left her to it for a while and it just all went a bit cold. We spoke briefly and then i emailed her after Xmas and it was clear she didnt want to know but said they were now engaged and all was rosy. Several months down the line (and after exchanging Birthday cards and brief email) we have now received wedding invite. Of course i will be going and hope she wants to make amends but find it all a bit weird that she hasnt been in touch previously. Didnt want to go to the bother of asking her what i had done etc just didnt want to go down that whole analysis thing. Have sent cheery email saying thanks for the invite etc but still think all a bit strange.
What do you think??