Money worries..

[pippalee]

I didnt know quite where to put this but I am about to be on the 'benenfit payrole'as I am leaving my husband and going to have to support my two children on my own.I just feel so depressed over this.This has been a long road and I am near the end but going into that office',is giving me anxiety.I know it wont be forever, I have a good working history but was just wondering if anyone had any tips on how to cope without feeling so down?

Like you say it won't be forever. Just think of it as something to get you back on your feet. Everyone needs help at some stage in their life, no shame in that.

Thank you Worryworry, I have actually been so strong about the whole situation but this seems to throw me.

It's what benefits are for, why socialists invented them, to help people in difficult circumstances. Don't feel bad, you may notice there are plenty of people claiming at the moment and i'm happy my taxes go one three-millionth(ish) of a way to helping you out...

Hi Pippalee. I am in a similar situation, having kicked out my DP. I also felt guilty about claiming benefits, but luckily everybody I've had to deal with so far (council etc) have been helpful and lovely. The way I see it, it won't be forever, once I feel that my currently 3-month old is big enough I'll go back to work and build my own life for me and my 2 DCs. I hope everything goes smoothly for you. x