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don't know what to do

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lostwife · 19/07/2010 12:42

Have found flirty texts and e-mails between DH and a female work colleague. Have no clue what to think. There is nothing really conclusive, but she talks of hoping he can come out and that this would be her preferred option.
He says don't worry but I am finding it hard. I just wrote to him and he did write back but told me not to write to his work e-mail anymore but to use his personal one. why would he say that?

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akhems · 19/07/2010 13:12

So sorry, I know just how you're feeling.

Has his behaviour changed in anyway recently? Does he seem more distant, grumpier, finding fault with things that were never an issue before?

Phone on silent? Keeping it attached to himself more than usual? Funny anecdotes about a colleague at work?

lostwife · 19/07/2010 13:19

yes, abit but we have a young baby as well as a toddler so i just put it down to the readjustment.
Never mentions work at home, not really. I don't know anyone there even though he socialises with them several times a week. I haven't ever questioned this as i'm BF'ing so going out isn't a priority for me.

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akhems · 22/07/2010 08:48

A baby isn't an excuse for being a selfish arse.

How are you lostwife?

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