cheating rat..........

[lilmamma]

found out on monday,that my daughters partner cheated on her,it was a one night stand but neither used protection.He then slept with my daughter the following night,she is now so upset and scared that she might have caught something,she is nearly 5 months pregnant..

will she be able to get checks done and does anyone know what the checks entail,as she is terrified of needles,and doesnt fancy having an internal,thanks.

She should go to GP, I think swaps needed.

She should also kick his sorry ass out.

It's imperative she goes to a GUM clinic asap. If she has caught anything, it is far better to treat it now than to risk harm to her baby.
It doesn't matter what they entail (swabs and bloods). She's a mum now! Better for her to face up to whatever tests than for her baby to have to possibly go through them and worse, post birth.
I'm so sorry to hear of what he's done to her.

she has kicked him out,and now he is begging,so sorry ect doesnt know why he did it etc,usual crap !!

so you reckon it will be a swab then ok thanks...

Swabs (possibly in mouth, vagina, urethra, anus) and blood tests, the blood tests will need to be repeated at a later date, preferably before birth.

Glad she's kicked him out but the hard part's keeping them out.

Thanks whirligig,the hospital mention a gum clinic,she was there as she had,had pains all night,probably due to the stress of it all.she is only 17,and so all this is so new to her,she was with him for nearly 2 years and he was her first boyfriend, what a mess....

Your poor daughter. Please make sure she does get the tests done, the consequences to baby if she has caught something and passes it on during birth, could be terrible.

I don't want to scare here, but it's so important she gets tested.

Nurses at gum clinics are really nice and will be incredibly supportive of her.

Sorry she's having to go through this.

Thanks for that,i will take her today,before i go to work,no rest for us mums eh.x

Good luck. I'm sure she'll be fine. Better off without him, and lucky her for having a lovely supportive mum. xx

Poor love, it's an awful thing to experience a betrayal during pregnancy, let alone the potential ramifications. You sound so supportive and that will make a world of difference to her right now. I hope everything is fine.

keep him kicked out!