have finally left him

[wornoutbyarguing]

well where do i satrt,,,,after 10 years of being married to a pretty messed up guy i have finally moved today,,,am going to admit am dead scared tonight first night in new pad with my dds aged 9 and 7 but have finally made the break

my husband is a porn addict and rubbish hoarder of the worst kind

i finally after years of him using cybersex sites,m**g everynight to ladyboys and finding out in last few weeks he has being looking for massage parlours found the guts to say adios

we went to relate ,i had to go to counsellors over the years,lived off antidepressants and felt so lonely and miserable and now i just sit here to nite thinking bloody hell i have done it.

i thought i would be sobbing 2nite and miserable but I must have cried so hard over the last few months am all cried out.

i just wanted to say to all those women on here who put up with so much unhappieness from their partners.DONT, grab the bull by the horns and go for it,

tara x

I'm so glad you've made the step to leave. You are a brave and resourceful lady. Well done. You're an inspiration.

Keep us posted as to how you're getting on.

Enjoy the start of a brilliant new life.

thank you sleepysox

well done tara, it can feel v daunting at first but life will get better and better

Well done for looking out for yourself and your children, having gone through so much you can only go up..

keep strong.

dont be scared,it will be surprisingly easy from now on.

you'll be ok....you and your girls

thanks ninah

since i said i am going feel so empowered and reading so many posts on here with some of the awful things that happen to people has been very helpful x