Posted on here quite a lot re the break up of my 19 yr marriage.H left for OW (despite initial denials of her)and we're getting divorced. Happened end March.
Couple of things happened recently. He spoke with a very good friend of mine, he must know she knows everything, he know I visit her 3 or 4 times a week. Tells her it was mutual (it wasn't and he didn't mention OW to my friend), that he thinks I'm doing fine (not really), he's giving me everything (What about the £20K I'm giving him?) and that I used to go on holidays without him (I begged and begged him, but he'd never come , so had to go on my own with the kids). What hurt most was the holiday thing, that he's turned it round saying that I used to go without him, when he knows that was the last thing I wanted.
So annoyed that he's saying these things to people and I think he's convinced himself they're true.
He was going to take 11yr old dd to France to visit some family he has over there. Lent him lots of things to take, cooker, electric cables, sleeping bags etc, so they could camp etc on the way. Then dd tells me a few weeks ago she's not going anymore. Asked him today if he was going alone, no, he's going with OW.
Am I the most guillible and stupid idiot that ever walked this planet? He said he was going with dd to get the stuff off me, but that was never the plan. How dare he have the audacity to go on holiday with this OW when he would never come with us!! She obviously feels he needs a holiday coz his horrible ex wife would never let him go with her.
Scuse the rant,,,just feeling so pissed off.