DH was circumcised 3 weeks ago for medical reasons. Within days of the op he was like a randy teenager but obviously couldn't take part in full on activities.
Instead we found new and inventive ways to enjoy ourselves and for 2 weeks couldn't keep our hands off each other. It was like being back in the early days of our relationship again.
I knew we couldn't live like that forever but we had fun and lots of it.
Then came the day when he was able to have very careful sex. Now he's dropped me like a hot potato. There is no touching, no affection and he just doesn't seem bothered any more.
It's as though all the sex games were just to reassure himself that he could still enjoy himself and that the minute he was able to climax and realise his willy does still work that was it.
It was like going from 100 miles an hour to 0 in a split second, all or nothing.
I know in the grand scheme of things this is a minor issue but I still feel hurt and a bit used, as though I was his plaything and now he is in working order again I'm not needed as often as he doesn't need reassured.
And no he is no longer in pain, his stitches are gone and sex wasn't painful for him.