I am furious. My husband moved out in April leaving me and our 3 yr old daughter. We had some problems.
But has moved in with a male neighbour who I have expressed concerns about in the past due to him asking inappropriate questions about daughters childcare arrangements. I was worried enough by line of questioning to go and speak to police. And when he suggested moving there during failed marriage couselling (he lied a lot) I told him It would make life very difficult for me.
Neighbour a manipulative, emotionally ignorant, selfish tosser who keeps waving and smiling at us. Sure he does it to provoke. His house is situated where we have to pass (usually on foot) a few feet away every time we go out. He sits / stands outside.
Husband erratic with contact and pays some maintenance but negated as he avoids discussing joint bills in my name. Very critical in front of daughter when around and I supervise all contact due to neighbour and other factors including his weed habit. Daughter very upset - though has improved a bit since I limited contact. (But husband did not turn up and he and neighbour had a party outside instead! Imagine how daughter felt.)
Hate the pair of them right now. Skint and can't afford more childcare (crap family which is probably how I ended up seeking rejection in the first place.
On benefits due to having to give up weekend job to care for daughter so can't move until I get a good job. Stuck inside most of time / doing free stuff. Suggestions?