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A bit of advice...

4 replies

Lauries · 11/07/2010 14:19

Regarding internet dating (again!)

I found a really nice man on there! Spoke every night for about a week until yesterday when a few things happened that made me feel a little uncomfortable..

I asked what he was doing Sunday and he said 'I'm going to church'. I replyed and he said I was only joking about going to church sorry. I am not religious. I don't like this, that sense of humour is almost a lie?? I don't like liars.

He also said his brother was coming round for dinner but he was gone an hour maximum, a few days before this said he was going bowling with his family and then a meal. Again, he was only away for an hour, possibly an hour and a half.

Then he said over dinner he thought I might like to call him instead of talking on the internet all the time so left his number. At the end of the night said he'd look forward to speaking again but when i logged on today he has deleted his account! Now I have no option but to call him?
What is going on???

It might sound a bit picky but I have dated two abusive controlling manipulators in the past and as such i am extremely nervous about getting another one. I do not like lies and I'm worried he might not be what he seems??

Opinions? I'm really quite upset and confused, I really liked him!

OP posts:
kreecherlivesupstairs · 11/07/2010 14:23

TBH, I am a long term married and consequently never used internet dating. FWIW, he sounds a bit odd. IIWY, I think I'd be inclined to delete his number or rop it out of your phone book.
sorry if that isn't what you wanted to hear.
I know that internet dating can work, my SIL has been in a relationship with a man for 5 years now and she is very high maintainance.

Lauries · 11/07/2010 14:26

It does sound odd doesn't it!

It wasn't the plan but no men can approach me as i'm always with little one or family and as I stumbled across two loons in real life I thought why not..

He seemed so nice at first but it stunned me a bit, can't understand why he would delete his account!

OP posts:
Eurostar · 11/07/2010 14:30

If you have any gut instinct that something is wrong, move on. Trust your instinct.

AnyFucker · 11/07/2010 15:35

strange

get shut...you don't need to know why he is playing silly buggers, tbh

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