I'm expecting DC2 in June and already have a toddler (who will be 2y6m in June). We currently use a lightweight Mothercare stroller (Mino) for DS, but also have a Silver Cross pram that we can use for the newborn. However, I'm considering getting a double buggy of some sort for transporting both DCs around and would welcome some advice!
We've already considered using a sling + stroller when DC2 is tiny (we have a stretchy fabric sling which I used with DS), and have also considered using pram + buggy board as an alternative. However, I think there will be times when we really do need a double buggy of some sort:
- DC2 will be born prematurely by ELCS (medical complications) so I'm not sure how suitable the sling + stroller option will be for either of us initially.
- We don't own a car so do most of our journeys on foot or by train/bus. This means a 2 x 20 minute walk either side of the train journey for me, and I think it would be easier all round to use a double buggy for this.
- DS is visually impaired so it's easier to take him in a buggy for long distances than to try and get him to walk alongside a pram.
- DS has frequent hospital visits in London (20 minute walk + 80 minute train journey + 25 minute walk). Each time he has a general anaesthetic, so is often drowsy and a bit fragile when we leave. I think he would need to come back in a buggy of some sort so he can sleep off the anaesthetic - not to mention that it's useful being able to transport all our stuff for the day on a buggy rather than have to carry it all.
So... my criteria are:
- Small enough to go on a bus/train and light and manoeuvrable around town (we don't need any off-road capabilities!), especially in the weeks following my ELCS;
- Capable of taking a big toddler and a baby at the same time - potentially for the next year at least (until DS is 3y6m and DC2 is 1). DS is currently about 13kg, average height and fairly slim build.
- Useable from birth (or near enough), ideally without having to put a car seat on it.
I'm not bothered about how small the buggy folds up or whether it will fit in a car boot, as we tend to hire cars as we need them and they're different models each time.
We've looked at various options and I'm not keen on the baby-in-the-basket type (e.g. P+T). I don't think DS would like anything that obscured his view too much (e.g. Uppababy Vista, Oyster Max) - ironically, his visual impairment means that he's more sensitive to what he can see than fully sighted children might be. I was looking at a Joovy Caboose, but I'm not sure how comfortable the rear-facing seat would be (e.g. for DS to doze in after an operation)? I think these criteria probably rule out most tandems so I was looking at side-by-side pushchairs instead.
So far, I'm considering a BJCM, Out'n'About Nipper (the newer, narrower one) or Mountain Buggy Duo, but I was also wondering about umbrella fold double buggies (e.g. Maclaren Techno). Or are the stroller-type ones harder to push and steer?
Sorry about this gigantic post but we have been thinking about this for ages and keep going in circles - so any advice/experience would be very welcome!