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So would you have a double with a two and a half year age gap?

20 replies

TribbleWithoutACause · 28/05/2012 14:35

If so, what double and why?

Thanks

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GinPalace · 28/05/2012 14:37

I don't understand the question! Is it me being thick? :)

molschambers · 28/05/2012 14:39

Double pushchair Gin.

No I wouldn't and didn't (twice). Would have been a waste of money for mine although we walked everywhere. Used a buggy board for a while.

mistressploppy · 28/05/2012 14:40

I have a 2.3yr age gap and I love my Mountain Buggy Duet - I chose it because it's a side-by-side but the same width as my Quinny Buzz! So fits though all doors etc. I needed good tyres too as we're semi rural and wanted a side-by-side because my DS is quite tall and the Phil and Teds ones seemed too small.

Some people don't like it though, I can't see why; I think it's FAB. The seats lie flat so it's been great for DS2 who is nearly 4mo. The hoods are massive so great in this sun. It's solid and well built and the basket is good too.

DS tends to walk a lot now he's 2.7yo but likes to jump in ie on the way back from the park. And it's very handy to be able to strap him in sometimes ie if you're out and need to bf and he's running off...

hazeyjane · 28/05/2012 14:42

yes, out n about side by side, easy to hop in and out of, big enough to carry scooters etc, small enough to get in most shops, light to push, don't need to take out 2nd mortgage to buy one 2nd hand.

chocolatetester1 · 28/05/2012 14:43

I was just wondering about a MB Duet! Thanks very much for the info.

GinPalace · 28/05/2012 14:44

OOOOoooooh! Grin

In that case I will watch with interest as I am going to have a 2.4 gap and am wrestling with exact same question. (Definitely thick!)

In my defence I ca,e across it in active and didn't notice the talk category - just zoomed in on the 2half year gap. :)

PrematurelyAirconditioned · 28/05/2012 14:44

Tough call OP. what's your lifestyle? How much do you walk? How much do you drive? Were you a big sling user first time round, even if not, how's your back? is there any reason why you couldn't have a sling as a fallback position for much of the first 6 months?
Do you do your supermarket shopping on foot, by car or online?
Are you filthy rich so you can afford to spend 500 quid on something that will make your life just a tiny (but crucial) bit easier? Assuming you're not filthy rich - how much of a struggle would it be to afford (say) 100/150 quid for something second hand?

TribbleWithoutACause · 28/05/2012 15:52

Prematurely We live semi rural but we have a small car (micra), I could fit a quinny and the seat unit in the boot without the wheels on it though. We do walk into town and to the park a lot. I think we could probably work our way upto about £300, maybe a bit more at a push. I don't mind using a sling tbh and if all else fell through I'd go with that. I'm not bothered by second hand at all.

I just wanted to see what the general consensus was about doubles with that kind of age gap. I've seen Phil and Teds and a lot of my friends swear by them, I'm a little unconvinced by them though.

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TribbleWithoutACause · 28/05/2012 15:54

Supermarket shopping is a bit of all three, we do bits in town, online when organised and by car when we forget Grin.

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fishym2b · 28/05/2012 17:40

I keep having this same dilemma. We currently walk everywhere, I am swaying towards not getting one. I have got a buggy board second hand and got DS a micro scooter. Think I may still get something secondhand as we are overseas and can see trips to UK being a nightmare without one. Will probably go for a phil and teds.

LoopyLoopsCorgiPoops · 28/05/2012 17:41

Yes. 2 year gap here but DDs are nearly 1 and nearly 3 - used daily (only 1 car, DH SAHD, they do probably 4+ miles a day)

LoopyLoopsCorgiPoops · 28/05/2012 17:41

(but our P&T cost £10)

NickettyNacketty · 28/05/2012 17:45

If your oldest is a bolter then definitely get a double. I had a Phil and teds with a two year gap but did not like it for the youngest when she had to go into the back seat. Not comfy for a young baby IMO. However it was the only one to fit through my then front door.
Mountain buggy and Nipper are both fab.

fishym2b · 28/05/2012 17:46

Also what single do you have is it something your eldest could sit in? I have a bee so easy enough to sling the little one and strap the eldest down in meltdown momments.

SmileItsSunny · 28/05/2012 18:44

No - I'm just about to get rid of mine and my oldest is 2.5. Although my parents have decided they need it at their house Confused

Ihateparties · 28/05/2012 19:53

I had one with 2.5 yr age gap and got rid asap (it was too wide for most places including own front door) Then had a good pram with buggyboard for ages, about a year. Eldest is fairly generously described as non compliant and he was trustworthy enough with a board at 2.10ish. With 2y1week age gap I have done it both ways, right now for our lifestyle a double is the way to go, the 2yo couldn't for practical (stopping for 5 mins to inspect contents of drain, walking in the wrong direction, any number of other toddler distractions etc.) and tiredness reasons walk everywhere and is not yet trustworthy enough for a board.

If you plan on keeping the same pram you currently have then a double is potentially a waste of money purely because you'd need to buy something else. If you're buying something else anyway then that argument carries less weight. I didn't have a pram that could carry either child at any given time (not very easy to find if you want them to face you, easy if you don't) so whilst I like the carrying option I would still have had to get something different. Also not a fan of carrying full time really, dunno why, just personal preference.

Suppose personally I feel like 2.5yrs is a really inbetween kind of gap, it really could go either way you could find it totally manageable or totally unmanageable. I have def found one more vital now we have a schedule that exists separately from the younger two, school etc. etc. With the first two we had more time to look and the sky, smell the flowers and look in all the drains we felt like!

It's not an all or nothing decision anyway, you can always sell on (ebay, preloved, gumtree etc) if you don't like/use it without necessarily losing a lot of money. It just depends what you buy and how well it holds its value.

BulletProofMum · 28/05/2012 19:57

I didn't and used the sling for a fall back. Never felt I wished I had a double. Ds1 used the buggy board, ds2 wouldn't when dd was born. I had 2.5 between each pair iiyswim.

Tiggywunkle · 28/05/2012 21:23

It really is all about you and your lifestyle. Think about where you go, and how you will juggle two. I refuse to go shopping without a double even now (my eldest is 3.7years old). I tried with a single today and it was a nightmare. I couldn't juggle everything with a child who doesn't seem to listen and wants to do her own thing! It was not worth the stress levels! I came straight home and said I was never leaving without a double again! But yet I was a nanny for 20 years and only twice had a double pushchair, simply because the places we went to were hassle free eg days out, library trips. We never shopped!!

I look at a double pushchair as a rental. Few siblings have a pushchair long term. So buy well - there's some newish bargains on EBay - and you should at least sell for the same money, and may even make a profit :)

Even if you only have one for 6 months believe me it will be 6 months that has been made a little bit easier for you :) You really don't need to spend a lot, but you do need to think about how well the pushchair will carry a two and a half year old and a newborn. A lot of tandems don't think about this well and the toddler may be reclined or be able to touch the ground or wheels at the front. For us, my eldest did become more sensible literally overnight at the age of 3, but as I said, even now, our doubles are godsends at times (mainly shopping!!)

TribbleWithoutACause · 28/05/2012 21:42

I love the look of the mountain buggy plus one, it looks so sensible.

I've also got a city mini, I could do what others have done and perch ds on the front in 'those' moments.

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Tiggywunkle · 28/05/2012 22:31

The Mountain Buggy +One is a little gem. But I think it's best suited to two older toddlers or a family where within 6 months the eldest is likely to be walking more so that the baby has a good recline, but should the eldest need to hop in, then it can be easily converted. You need to research it thoroughly though as there are several compromises.

I have used the child perched on the front of a City Mini and it worked well for the first months - I think we last tried it when the baby was 9 months. Just bear in mind it's not safety tested or advised!

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