Being the frugal uber-research-before-you-buy kind of person, I am starting research now on what kind of pushchair/stroller/whatever the hell you call them to buy. I am due in late October. The range and options are all very scary and daunting so I am trying to narrow down the model (or 2-3 models) that best suit me and then search for a good price/good second hand one from there.
Please help! 
Important things:
- I live in an apartment in Dublin, so I do not have lots of space to store a big buggy/pushchair etc in a garage.
I would like one that suits my needs for the whole first 12-18 months if possible.
- I live near a huge park and do lots of walking/running. DH is active too. So a pushchair more suited to active people would be good.
- DH is tall (6ft1) so he has been saying he wants something with extendable handles, if possible.
- Our car is a 2001 VW Golf, so pushchair would need to fit easily in the boot of this plus shopping etc.
- Most of the time during the week I would not have the car as DH drives to work. So to get around during the week I will be walking or taking the bus or the train. This means a light/easy to fold one I guess is ideal.
- In December I will be travelling home to New Zealand for 6 weeks to visit friends and family with baby. Undecided whether I'd just buy/borrow a second hand one in NZ for the trip, but I think it could be easier to take my own. I am unsure whether I will take our own carseat with us as I thought it might be easier for DH's parents to buy one second-hand in NZ that definitely fits their car (do all carseats have standard connector points?)? This is perhaps relevant to whether I would buy Graco Mirage travel system (see below) as the carseat clicks in easily to that.
- I do not really want to spend more than ?500/GBP450ish on everything (rain cover, carrycot if needed etc), but we do not have a tight budget.
My ideas so far/things I know:
- From reading Mumsnet I have heard a lot of recommendations that a sling and a Maclaren is all you need. On the sling/baby carrier front, we should be able to borrow a BabyBjorn from friends (we bought as present for them!). I have heard there are other very good slings out there too, so maybe I would buy one of those instead.
- It looks like a Maclaren Techno XLR is very well-reviewed and recommended. I have seen this package with carrycot on Kiddsave for GBP310 (out of stock but you can pre-order). The carrycot clicks into the pushchair, right?
- Do I need to get a pushchair that can have a carrycot fit it? I think I would like the baby to face me for the first wee bit, but it is probably not a deal-breaker.
- My question above is what has come up when I have been looking at the Graco Mirage Travel System. It looks like very good value but I am not sure about whether people really do have their baby lie flat in it from birth. The Graco Quattro system has got a cot with it too, but it is not clear from any pictures I can find if this is meant to click into the pushchair?
- With the Graco Mirage/other travel systems that seem to have the carseat bit facing you - is this system best if your main means of getting around is with a car? Ie I would not really take the baby in carseat in pushchair if I'm going on the bus?
- What is a footmuff? Do I need it?
- What is a car seat base? Do I need it?
- I like the look of these pushchairs you can use for running with your baby (Baby Jogger, BOB etc) but I understand you're not meant to use them from birth. As I said above I do not really want to have to buy two pushchairs. :( But maybe my desperation to get back to running will make me change my mind!
Suggestions of other brands/things completely different most welcome too!