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Heart or Head When Choosing House?

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Evenstar · 09/07/2010 23:11

Well, having finally sold my house earlier this week after 6 months on the market I now have to find somewhere else to live. I have viewed 7 houses and conclusively rejected 4 of those. I have 1 that I have mentally allocated as a B choice and 2 that I really like for different reasons and I am struggling to choose between them.

Property 1 is a Victorian detached house, with one off road parking space and permit controlled residents parking space in the road. It has large high ceilinged rooms and is mostly in good decorative order and has lovely wooden floors and good carpets. The biggest downside for me is that the energy rating isn't great and one of my major reasons for downsizing is to reduce the gas and electricity bills. It has a conservatory and a really pretty garden. I could also keep the huge dining table that has come from my late husband's family.

Property 2 is 1950's semi detached opposite a lovely park, with 3 off road parking spaces and a garage. It is largely in good decorative order, but has a few things that are definitely odd, like a sliding patio door into the porch and a utility room with no ceiling. It has a lovely homely feel and a private garden with a space that would lend itself to a conservatory.

I am feeling very drawn to property 1 but I think property 2 would be the sensible choice with the off road parking and being cheaper to heat etc. When my husband was here we complemented each other well with these decisions as he put the head side, I just seem to be going over both sides in my mind and not getting any further.

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saltyseadog · 10/07/2010 09:19

We just sold a property very much like Property 1 to move into a house like Property 2. I haven't regretted it for a second.

Yes - I miss my marble fireplaces and high ceilings BUT I love the practicality of having loads of off road parking, a bigger garden, more space, better location etc.
Being able to park the car outside the front door is fabulous

A few years ago I wouldn't even have looked at a 1950s property, and this place was a real wild card for us, but I love it. And it's so warm compared to our Victorian terrace.

Sorry for not being much help, but I personally wouldn't write off Property 2 having just made the move that we have.

purepurple · 10/07/2010 09:19

Evenstar, I was in exactly your position a few weeks ago. We narrowed our choice down to 2 houses, house 1 was a lovely Victorian semi with original windows that needed a lot of work. We both fell in love with it, it was our dream house. Then we viewed house 2, a 60s square box, with a huge drive and loads of potential. We always said we wanted a period property, but we have put in an offer on the 60s house and are waiting to exchange any day
now.
I think that sometimes a house chooses you, instead of the other way round.
Maybe you need to go and have another viewing of each house?

PotPourri · 10/07/2010 09:23

victorian one every time. I always go with my heart. It's your new start (so sorry about your dh) - so go with somewhere that captures your heart

Evenstar · 10/07/2010 09:36

I know I could be happy in the 1950's house, it is light and airy, my current house is 1960's and we had work done to improve the exterior appearance and give it more character, when I viewed property 2 I could see lots of potential. I am really grateful for all your help everyone, it seems the key issue between the two is really the parking and never having lived with permit parking before I hadn't fully realised what a nightmare that could be.

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saltyseadog · 10/07/2010 11:58

Do let us know what you choose

kickassangel · 10/07/2010 13:28

i would second the comment about checking out the park opposite house 2 - it could be really noisy at times. one house we lived in had a red phone box opposite. how were we to know that every teenager in the village hung out there, smoking, throwing bottles, vandalising it. then there was the 'gang' who were removing the money boxes from them (very dramatically, using steel cables & a speeding car).

this was in a 'nice' village. it wasn't every night, or even half the time, but it is wearying being woken up at 2 am by these things.

nowwearefour · 10/07/2010 17:13

yes definitely check the park issue. we viewed a lovely property but it was right by a park and this was 2 years ago- it is still on the market for this very reason.

Rollmops · 10/07/2010 19:23

Victorian, hands down. I'd replace the open fires with multifuel stoves and heat the rooms you spend most time this way. The beasies are madly efficient.

Evenstar · 11/07/2010 23:19

Thank you everyone for all your advice. I am definitely veering towards Property 2 after reading all the experiences of parking permits etc. I have booked a second viewing on the 1950's semi and am taking my friend with me, so I will let you know how it goes

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Evenstar · 13/07/2010 00:00

I have been back for a second viewing on property 2 this afternoon and have decided to put an offer in tomorrow. I am being a bit cheeky with my first offer, but they have been on the market for some time and I am hoping that I will get it at a good price.

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saltyseadog · 13/07/2010 19:10

Oooh good luck. 1950s houses rock

nowwearefour · 14/07/2010 10:30

do keep us posted evenstar and all the best for it!

LovingTheSunshine · 14/07/2010 13:17

Good luck

Evenstar · 14/07/2010 14:53

This is unbelievable even to me but having had my first offer rejected yesterday, I was going to make a higher offer this morning and then saw another house that had just come on to Right Move! I viewed at 9.30 and made an offer before 10.30. It is in a total mess and needs a complete refurb but it is detached and has a garage and off road parking for at least 3 cars and has so much potential. It is a former police house, 1950's build again and I now have to wait to hear from the Police Commission as to whether the offer is acceptable. I thought this time due to my situation I wanted one I could just walk into, but I have proved myself wrong and I am crossing everything now. I had to offer quickly as the people who came to see it after me this morning made an offer and if it had been accepted I wouldn't have been able to go and look at it again tomorrow, I am taking my friend with me to get a second opinion, but I am hopeful that this is the one, and am just trying not to get too excited until I know that it is going to happen.

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saltyseadog · 14/07/2010 19:54

Wow! FIngers crossed for your Evenstar. It just goes to show that your heart makes your mind up in the end .

nowwearefour · 15/07/2010 10:26

how very exciting! amazing how these things happen, isnt it. when you know you KNOW!

Evenstar · 15/07/2010 17:50

Not such good news today sadly, 3 offers on it in 24 hours and one person has nothing to sell. Also because it is being sold on behalf of the Police Commission it has to remain on the market for a minimum of 4 weeks which will be 2 weeks after an open day when lots of people have booked to view it. The agent is powerless to accept a higher offer to cancel the open day and take it off the market due to these rules. I went to see it again this morning with friends before I knew this and am feeling quite disheartened now. I am afraid with this level of interest it may go to sealed bids and I won't be able to match the highest offer. I am going to keep looking on Right Move in case something else comes up in the meantime, and still have the 1950's semi in reserve.

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nowwearefour · 15/07/2010 19:27

oh well dont give up hope - it hasnt gone to anyone else just yet! it will all work out and at least you have something you do like waiting in the wings for you!

saltyseadog · 15/07/2010 22:55

Don't give up hope yet.

We went to sealed bids on this house, bid our hearts out...and lost. Fortunately for us the higher bidder couldn't get their act together and we were given the opportunity to buy it (hurrah). I know several people who have experienced something similar. In the meantime I'll keep everything crossed for you .

Waswondering · 15/07/2010 23:06

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Shirleygoodness · 15/07/2010 23:22

Waswondering - Aga's are not efficient, one of the worst things you can do for your carbon footprint. Ours uses half our annual oil - an extra radiator and conventional cooker would be much cheaper - but the cost and upheaval to get rid (would have to redo whole kitchen) not worth it and it's worth diddly squat to resell despite the rumours to contrary.

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garden · 26/07/2010 23:03

our vic house is shockingly cold in winter, but we love it, don't heat every room and winter is only 3 months! i do feel the cold but can live with it as it's a lovely house. good luck with whichever you choose!

ChippingIn · 26/07/2010 23:14

Evenstar - what's the latest?

If it was me and I missed out on the Police House I would rent and keep looking until I found something else that made me that excited/interested.

Evenstar · 02/08/2010 13:24

Thanks everyone for all your advice and input. After all that I have settled on none of the above!!

I have chosen a 1930's detached house on the same road as the 1950's semi-detached. It is also opposite the lovely park and has a big lounge diner that will accomodate my table. I had made a first viewing on it some weeks ago and I was in a bad mood that day and not wanting to leave my current home. When it came through again with a price reduction I actually couldn't think what it was I didn't like! I went to view it again and I really liked it,and after a week of negotiations closed the deal last week at £5,000 below the revised asking price.

I am really pleased and just hoping everything will go smoothly from now on, I made the decision that I couldn't wait for the police house as my buyers were getting anxious and wondering whether to start looking again. Also my health hasn't been too good in the last month and I had real doubts about tackling a huge project.

Thanks again for all your advice and kind words.

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