We have a workshop and garage in the back garden ( worshop behind the garage). Dh has fitted a tv aerial to the back of this building (on the gable end) so he can watch tv whilst using his rower. There are a lot of trees to screen the thing so he did not espect any upset never occured to him other properties could see it. However our neighbour is spitting mad! Apparently they can see it from their conservatory and are furious we did not ask them first. Dh has dropped it as low as he can (it is well below the ridge line)- he did this in the dark last night - as he is away this week.
Whilst we do not need planning permission for an old fashioned tv aerial (and they are very ugly!), I do not want to upset my neighbour if it can be avoided. Dh is unhappy at the dispute -he is after all within his right and I can see him digging his heels in if the neighbour goes on threatening. They are convinced it is oversized ( it is the smallest available) and needs planning permission.
Anyway as dh is now away (and I do not want to mess with the aerial), and I know my neighbour is likely to takle me ( she was very upset yesturday)I thought I would suggest Dh go to visit neighbour so he can see for himself what needs to be done to make it invisible/ less obtrusive - ie move it slightly.
What would you do?