We are at the failed planning stage. I'm very,very worried that DH will not take my needs, wants and advice on board. Need some support during this as it's a big deal and DH and I think very differently about how we moved forward. For example we have asked for planning permission on a two story extenstion without finding out if we can afford it! I have called buiLders to give us estimates this week but not sure when DH would have thought this was a good idea!
Can I give ypu an idea how he sets about doing DIY. We have to insulate the front room internally. I check 'WHICH' website that recoomends that this is done professionally. So DH throws that idea away and he is going to do it. SO he plans to do it during Schools hols (he is a teacher) So he rips the plaster off one wall. but can't do the second wall until the raditor is removed and a new one is placed on another wall! I also wants some wall fitted lights to free up wall space. So we went out Saturday to look for a raditor and he bought it with out really thinking about the design or prices!!!! Raditors will not be delivered for two weeks from other shops!!!We now have to wait until the next holiday before he can do any of this! I think I need to project manage but don't know anything about building so how can I do this!!!! Can't leave it to DH help!!!