its a really stressful time - we moved this time last year and the removal men turned up the night before (we were moving overseas and they were fromt he country we were moving too!) and we were still packing as they were putting the first few boxes in the truck.
it seems like a monstrous task but you'll get there and you can only do what you can do!
kids just make it even harder but if you try to pack away most of the stuff that she doesnt play with all the time - she's old enough to understand that you're moving and you cam really emphaisis ethe adventure side and hope she helps!