As part of our extension we need to move a retaining wall (currently 2m away from the boundary on our side) up to the boundary. The wall will not straddle the boundary, it will be on our side but on the boundary iykwim. The architect, after me pushing her on it, said that we need a party wall agreement with these neighbours.
Our neighbour came round yesterday with a letter that he had got out of the blue from a party wall surveyor offering his serves to them. The neighbour said he didn't want it to cost us any more money than its already going to cost us and as long as we comply with building regs and get a builder with insurance incase of something going wrong he couldn't careless what we do on our land . I said that would write them a letter that they will need to respond to within 2weeks and they said not to be silly, we talk to each other, we're all reasonable people, why bother? They don't want the hassle of writing a response back I think!!
So, can we go ahead with nothing in writing? Is this prudent or do we force the issue and get a party wall agreement? I did give him the booklet I ordered from the planning website but he said he wasn't interested, he wants us to be happy with our extension and plans and not worry about a wall!