skinsl yes, the nice builder did a grand job, he could not chang everything, but he fixed the horrendously hanging beam, he designed something off his own back and ran it past building control and they were happy with it, he did not charge it, he just charged for material (£50). He was also pleasant, and lovely to have in the house actually, he and DH got on famously and swapped music cds and he is coming back to finish some other things when we can afford it. Major things are wrong, stairs in the wrong place, lobby in the wrong place, small room still too small and we are not happy with the loft but not the fault of our new builder. The timing was fine in the end because DS was 10 days late but there was a lot of friends helping to get the decorating done in time and so we could get our carpets laid and DD up there before baby arrived. But it was close!
DD is up there now and she absolutely loves it, and we are slowly accepting the wrongs that happened, learnt from it and trying to move on. Once we have finished this court case however it pans out we can move on. We now have a decorated home, looks for the most part lovely, and we will have to find ways to deal with the crocked walls, adds character!
You are right about the timeline, I can be certain about dates and times of things, and luckily we took photos of the damage before we got it repaired which the surveyor will look at too.
I am glad things are getting better for you, and really hope you do not have to go to court for any money owed, but if you need to, do it as it is not good for their reputation to go to court, as you said, that is an advantage to using an independent cowboy builder. Good luck with the bathroom!
I shall now stop hijacking!