Since split 3 yrs ago (now divorced) have been privately renting a very small house. Wanted to stay in area because wanted to keep stability and schooling for dcs. I do feel that this has helped with fall out from split. Both very settled in school - ds1 is in secondary school now.
I did get some equity but not enough to buy in this area so used it to subsidise the extorniate rent. Well over 1000 per month. And we are at the cheaper end of the market. Living in SE London.
I pay it of course but then find I am struggling to buy food each month, despite becoming a bargain hunter.
I do get maintenance and earn reasonable salary. I don't qualify for hb and get basic tax credit.
I don't think I'd get another mortgage due to age and credit history.
Am on local authority list but will never get social housing as considered adequately housed. Some of my friends pay about 400pcm for similar property and prob on similar income.
I am looking for maybe smaller flat but even they are similar cost.
I think I've investigated every avenue to improve my situation but am posting in desperation in case anyone knows of any other options open to me.
I sometimes wonder if I'd be better off earning less. [hmmm]
Ongoing threat of redundancy plus exh not in his prime. Think I'm up shit creek really.