Hi Pearcie
I am currently at the application stage for my son, who is due to start school in Sep 10 and so have to make some decisions and quick! A word of warning the application deadline is early i.e. for this year it is 22nd October!
Manby Lodge would probably be the nearest for you, however when you apply you can put down two other choices and so best to check out all your options. Oatlands may be your second nearest.The Surrey County Council website has a measurement guide and so by using your postcode you can establish exactly what your nearest schools are. Catchment areas appear to change year on year, depending on the number of applications.
In terms of Manby Lodge, I don' know anyone directly who goes there but I have heard that it is an improving school (regardless of what the reports say) and there is a good community/support of parents. I'm not a local and therefore don't know about old/previous reputations. The only question I have is where your child would go once finished at Manby, if out of catchment for Cleves?
I'm sure you have a lot going on with your move, however most of the schools (both private and state) have their open days/sessions over the next month if you want to check them out. Just call up the schools you are interested in.
In terms of the private schools, I am more familiar with St George's. If you want your daughter to attend the nursery (from 3 years), then you would need to give them a call to find out if they have places. They will send you a rather snazzy folder/brochure and registration is £75. The open day for both junior and senior school is this Friday and Saturday. I understand from others that it has changed over the last 10-15 years to a more academically focused school and children who don't achieve the required standards have to move elsewhere.
To be honest there are loads of private schools around here as demonstrated by the fact that there is also an Independent Schools Fair taking place locally, can't remember the details but might be worth looking into.
Okay, enough about schools... (I am looking forward to the time when I don't have to think about it!)
Good luck with the move.