Here's the story. We live in Scotland, but we're both from the south of England (not Sussex), and both lived there until about 10 years ago.
There's no work up here for DP and our family and lots of our oldest friends are down south, with lots of our friends in Sussex (Brighton, Hastings, and rural). DP would have much more opportunity for work down there, and I am self-employed and can work anywhere.
So, what do you who know think of Brighton as a place to live? Honestly. We have two pre-schoolers.
Things I like about here: access to lovely countryside, cost of living, and a sense that eveyone is not on top of you. My impression of Brighton is that it is maybe a bit cheek-by-jowl.
Would be interested to hear opinions.