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Bed bugs in my bed. I’m horrified!!

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BeLimeTiger · 13/08/2026 20:32

We got back from holiday in Italy three weeks ago and my partner was complaining of bites (I thought he was being a bit of a hypochondriac). Anyway, I noticed bites today and specs of brown/red on our pillows.

I found one of the critters and took a picture of it… definitely bed bugs.

Has anyone successfully treated an infestation and if so how? I’ve put all the sheets and mattresses protectors in the wash. I’m so horrified!

OP posts:
mellymoop · 17/08/2026 10:09

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 02:22

And also incorrect.

What?! THey are famously tricky little feckers to remove.

Bedbugohno · 17/08/2026 13:19

BeLimeTiger · 17/08/2026 07:00

i find it weirdly reassuring that I’m not alone, thanks for posting. The nerve agent seems to be preventing them from going back into hiding after they’ve fed and my other said he found about 30 of them when he pulled out the mattress yesterday morning. I’ll be forever grateful to him for offering himself as bait in the main bedroom. For those who don’t know, you need to sleep in the treated bedrooms to draw them out of hiding

I can't believe that you have to stay in the room to act as bait. This makes it even worse!

AlertPinkMember · 17/08/2026 14:17

does he see them alive, or dead? One of my concerns at the moment is I’ve only found one dead bug on the floor.
the rest I see in the middle of the night- they do seem to be quite slow and there are a few tiny ones who died after biting. The pest control person said I’d need to wait around 10 days to see if it has worked or if it needs more treatment. He seemed confident but I’m not quite on the same page yet… It’s been a very long few weeks!!

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 15:24

AlertPinkMember · 17/08/2026 14:17

does he see them alive, or dead? One of my concerns at the moment is I’ve only found one dead bug on the floor.
the rest I see in the middle of the night- they do seem to be quite slow and there are a few tiny ones who died after biting. The pest control person said I’d need to wait around 10 days to see if it has worked or if it needs more treatment. He seemed confident but I’m not quite on the same page yet… It’s been a very long few weeks!!

Let"s guess now, I think it will probably need more treatment?

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 15:25

Bedbugohno · 17/08/2026 13:19

I can't believe that you have to stay in the room to act as bait. This makes it even worse!

With the dust it just takes one of them to carry traces back to the nest and they are all exposed, very nasty if you think about it but effective.

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 15:28

mellymoop · 17/08/2026 10:09

What?! THey are famously tricky little feckers to remove.

I used to think that until I found the dust, no doubt the professional treatment companies want you to believe that. I read somewhere that they disappeared for many years but made a comeback in the 1970"s as hotel travel got more popular?

PencilsInSpace · 17/08/2026 18:13

Bedbugohno · 17/08/2026 13:19

I can't believe that you have to stay in the room to act as bait. This makes it even worse!

Yes, otherwise they just come and find you and the infestation spreads through the house.

I think this is part of why they are so mentally distressing.

susiedaisy1912 · 17/08/2026 18:30

Get pest control in asap. We’ve had bedbugs and it was an absolute nightmare, it took 6 months, 3 treatments and a new bed in the end before we were finally free of them. That was 16 years ago and I’m still traumatised by it.

JMSA · 17/08/2026 18:41

Just to add, I feel so sorry for you. It seems they are horrendously difficult to get rid of.

likelysuspect · 17/08/2026 18:41

What happens if you have pets and all this fumigation going on?

Does the dust affect breathing

Im in a job where we have clients who have bed bugs, its a nightmare

PencilsInSpace · 17/08/2026 18:46

AlertPinkMember · 15/08/2026 17:37

Hello everyone, replying to this in solidarity with the original poster - I too am going through this at the moment, perhaps a couple of weeks ahead!
My first sign was small black dots on my white sheets which were impossible to wash off- a quick google returned bed bugs but I thought surely not…
a week later I was washing my sheets again and found a bug attached to my fitted sheet as I was putting it into the machine.
Luckily; I was able to get a pest control visit 2 days later who reassured me it was likely an early infestation as he could not see any bugs or eggs on inspection. I had taken a picture of the bug which he was able to identify as a bed bug. My first treatment was steam and chemical spray. A 2.5 week gap before a second chemical treatment 4 days ago.
the way this treatment works is by forcing the bugs out of their hiding spots to cross the chemical and (hopefully) die. The experience has been hard to cope with as it feels like it’s getting worse not better, I now wake in the middle of the night to kill the bugs that are hanging out on my bed - mentally and physically challenging.
My reason for posting this is that I would highly recommend professional treatment without delay as the longer you wait the worse it will get. If anyone is in a similar position I would also advise to avoid deep diving onto online chat boards - Reddit on particular is horrendous and will only peak your anxiety. Although I am not out of the woods, I have chosen to “trust the process” and hoping a turning point comes soon. The pest control company I am using came recommended and have been treating these problems successfully for years.
Online you only read about the worst case scenarios. I am hoping to follow this up with a positive story of successful treatment in the hope it may help anyone who is struggling. I’ve actually found chatting to the Google AI function very reassuring and has helped me rationalise some of my thoughts.
The pest control company told me they are the busiest they’ve ever been with these cases, you are not alone and this can happen to anyone!

I would also recommend professional treatment without delay, however not all councils offer this service for free and it can be extremely expensive.

Some of the companies the councils send out require an enormous amount of preparatory work - far more than more expensive companies. We were told we had to empty out every piece of furniture in all the bedrooms and move it all away from the wall. We didn't have to do any of that with the company we eventually went with. Sometimes this level of disruption is more than people can cope with, especially as at least two visits are generally required.

Most companies rely on chemical pesticides and there are growing issues with resistance. Sometimes they have to come back again and again and again, for months, and eventually some people simply can't face another visit so look for ways to finish the job themselves.

DIY with Cimexa is really useful in conjunction with professional treatment and if used properly can also be an effective alternative.

DIY with DE will be ineffective but won't make things worse.

DIY with chemical pesticides is likely to make things worse because there is nothing available on the retail market that they are not already at least partially immune to. It can make them scatter to other rooms.

There are some horror stories on Reddit and rather a lot of pictures which some people may wish to avoid, however the information and advice on the bedbugs subreddit is sound, especially for anyone who is unable to access a professional service for whatever reason. The set of guides they have produced in the sidebar are especially useful.

AlertPinkMember · 17/08/2026 19:50

PencilsInSpace · 17/08/2026 18:46

I would also recommend professional treatment without delay, however not all councils offer this service for free and it can be extremely expensive.

Some of the companies the councils send out require an enormous amount of preparatory work - far more than more expensive companies. We were told we had to empty out every piece of furniture in all the bedrooms and move it all away from the wall. We didn't have to do any of that with the company we eventually went with. Sometimes this level of disruption is more than people can cope with, especially as at least two visits are generally required.

Most companies rely on chemical pesticides and there are growing issues with resistance. Sometimes they have to come back again and again and again, for months, and eventually some people simply can't face another visit so look for ways to finish the job themselves.

DIY with Cimexa is really useful in conjunction with professional treatment and if used properly can also be an effective alternative.

DIY with DE will be ineffective but won't make things worse.

DIY with chemical pesticides is likely to make things worse because there is nothing available on the retail market that they are not already at least partially immune to. It can make them scatter to other rooms.

There are some horror stories on Reddit and rather a lot of pictures which some people may wish to avoid, however the information and advice on the bedbugs subreddit is sound, especially for anyone who is unable to access a professional service for whatever reason. The set of guides they have produced in the sidebar are especially useful.

That is fair.
it sounds like people have had success with cimexa which is good to know, I’ll definitely consider this as a protection after treatment.

AlertPinkMember · 17/08/2026 19:53

likelysuspect · 17/08/2026 18:41

What happens if you have pets and all this fumigation going on?

Does the dust affect breathing

Im in a job where we have clients who have bed bugs, its a nightmare

I have cats, with the treatment I have had (steam and chemical) they need to be out of the house for around 3 hours after. I also have asthma and my breathing has not been affected

PencilsInSpace · 17/08/2026 22:22

likelysuspect · 17/08/2026 18:41

What happens if you have pets and all this fumigation going on?

Does the dust affect breathing

Im in a job where we have clients who have bed bugs, its a nightmare

Neither DE or Cimexa are great if inhaled so you need to wear a mask when applying. Also wear gloves as it's very drying to the skin. DE is more harmful because the dust particles are jagged and sharp whereas Cimexa is like tiny smooth round balls. For this reason DE should only be applied in cracks and crevices whereas cimexa can be used in more open areas, but still, don't fling it everywhere.

Think about where the bugs will have to walk to reach you and then apply the dust in bands, e.g. around the legs of your bed, a continuous band around your bed frame, above and below skirting boards. You can use it a bit more liberally inside the bed base, behind the head board and other places where it won't be disturbed. We worked out that if we put a continuous band around the bed just where the sheet tucked in, the bugs would have to cross it whether they were coming from inside the bed or further afield.

For either dust, you should only apply a very very light coating, so it's just visible when the light catches it from the side. If you can see piles of white powder you've overdone it. Then leave the room for a couple of hours to allow it to settle. Once it's settled it's pet safe.

KeepPumping · 18/08/2026 16:55

PencilsInSpace · 17/08/2026 18:46

I would also recommend professional treatment without delay, however not all councils offer this service for free and it can be extremely expensive.

Some of the companies the councils send out require an enormous amount of preparatory work - far more than more expensive companies. We were told we had to empty out every piece of furniture in all the bedrooms and move it all away from the wall. We didn't have to do any of that with the company we eventually went with. Sometimes this level of disruption is more than people can cope with, especially as at least two visits are generally required.

Most companies rely on chemical pesticides and there are growing issues with resistance. Sometimes they have to come back again and again and again, for months, and eventually some people simply can't face another visit so look for ways to finish the job themselves.

DIY with Cimexa is really useful in conjunction with professional treatment and if used properly can also be an effective alternative.

DIY with DE will be ineffective but won't make things worse.

DIY with chemical pesticides is likely to make things worse because there is nothing available on the retail market that they are not already at least partially immune to. It can make them scatter to other rooms.

There are some horror stories on Reddit and rather a lot of pictures which some people may wish to avoid, however the information and advice on the bedbugs subreddit is sound, especially for anyone who is unable to access a professional service for whatever reason. The set of guides they have produced in the sidebar are especially useful.

DE is effective, it kills them and they don"t come back as long as the dust is there!

KeepPumping · 18/08/2026 16:58

PencilsInSpace · 17/08/2026 22:22

Neither DE or Cimexa are great if inhaled so you need to wear a mask when applying. Also wear gloves as it's very drying to the skin. DE is more harmful because the dust particles are jagged and sharp whereas Cimexa is like tiny smooth round balls. For this reason DE should only be applied in cracks and crevices whereas cimexa can be used in more open areas, but still, don't fling it everywhere.

Think about where the bugs will have to walk to reach you and then apply the dust in bands, e.g. around the legs of your bed, a continuous band around your bed frame, above and below skirting boards. You can use it a bit more liberally inside the bed base, behind the head board and other places where it won't be disturbed. We worked out that if we put a continuous band around the bed just where the sheet tucked in, the bugs would have to cross it whether they were coming from inside the bed or further afield.

For either dust, you should only apply a very very light coating, so it's just visible when the light catches it from the side. If you can see piles of white powder you've overdone it. Then leave the room for a couple of hours to allow it to settle. Once it's settled it's pet safe.

Get a metal bed, they can"t climb up on the metal, the dust shouldn"t be in piles, drop a pile them sweep it into the air with a hard brush then leave the room, go outside for a while if you can or hang out a window in another room until it settles, don"t breathe it in.

Ilovemyfam · 18/08/2026 17:14

Move22 · 16/08/2026 16:27

Also, how do you handle visitors staying over, particularly adult children who’ve been away travelling!

Clothes in a hot wash and rucksack on balcony in a big sealed plastic bag for over a week. Not sure if it was the reason, but I have survived 4 returnees from dodgy hostels

PencilsInSpace · 18/08/2026 20:03

KeepPumping · 18/08/2026 16:55

DE is effective, it kills them and they don"t come back as long as the dust is there!

No it's not effective. As I discussed above, it does kill them eventually but not fast enough to stop them reaching adulthood and breeding.

https://www.pctonline.com/article/pct1213-diatomaceous-earth-study/

https://www.pctonline.com/article/pct0814-silica-gel-research-bed-bugs/

Bed bugs in my bed. I’m horrified!!
Bed bugs in my bed. I’m horrified!!
PencilsInSpace · 18/08/2026 20:17

KeepPumping · 18/08/2026 16:58

Get a metal bed, they can"t climb up on the metal, the dust shouldn"t be in piles, drop a pile them sweep it into the air with a hard brush then leave the room, go outside for a while if you can or hang out a window in another room until it settles, don"t breathe it in.

Don't do this! Your bed will be coated in it and as soon as you get in bed it'll be disturbed and you'll breathe it in. This is particularly hazardous if you're using DE which should only be used in cracks and crevices. You'll also end up with extremely dry skin if you sleep on a layer of dessicant dust.

MabelAnderson · 19/08/2026 09:08

KeepPumping · 17/08/2026 15:28

I used to think that until I found the dust, no doubt the professional treatment companies want you to believe that. I read somewhere that they disappeared for many years but made a comeback in the 1970"s as hotel travel got more popular?

They disappeared due to DDT.
That got banned, because although it kills them very effectively, it’s also pretty poisonous for people. They became immune over time to other insecticides used and were never eradicated as effectively in other, warmer countries. They are now making a huge comeback due to travel and their resistance to various chemical treatments.

KeepPumping · 19/08/2026 12:53

PencilsInSpace · 18/08/2026 20:17

Don't do this! Your bed will be coated in it and as soon as you get in bed it'll be disturbed and you'll breathe it in. This is particularly hazardous if you're using DE which should only be used in cracks and crevices. You'll also end up with extremely dry skin if you sleep on a layer of dessicant dust.

Cover the bed with a plastic sheet then, you don"t sleep on the metal bed anyway unless you are a monk or something, you sleep on a mattress, which if you followed my earlier posts should still be in a plastic wrapper! (remove it from the room while you "dust")

KeepPumping · 19/08/2026 12:54

MabelAnderson · 19/08/2026 09:08

They disappeared due to DDT.
That got banned, because although it kills them very effectively, it’s also pretty poisonous for people. They became immune over time to other insecticides used and were never eradicated as effectively in other, warmer countries. They are now making a huge comeback due to travel and their resistance to various chemical treatments.

"their resistance to various chemical treatments."

Which is why I keep saying - Before you spend 2k on a "treatment" try the dust that costs £16 from Amazon!

KeepPumping · 19/08/2026 12:57

PencilsInSpace · 18/08/2026 20:03

No it's not effective. As I discussed above, it does kill them eventually but not fast enough to stop them reaching adulthood and breeding.

https://www.pctonline.com/article/pct1213-diatomaceous-earth-study/

https://www.pctonline.com/article/pct0814-silica-gel-research-bed-bugs/

But they are breeding into a dustbowl! They can"t survive in a dusted environment! When was the last time you actually used the dust? There is real world experience and then there is "information" from online sources who maybe have a VI in selling you some chemicals that don"t work perhaps?

PencilsInSpace · 19/08/2026 13:28

KeepPumping · 19/08/2026 12:53

Cover the bed with a plastic sheet then, you don"t sleep on the metal bed anyway unless you are a monk or something, you sleep on a mattress, which if you followed my earlier posts should still be in a plastic wrapper! (remove it from the room while you "dust")

But they're most likely to be found in the bed ...

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