nuisance neighbour

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ive lived at this property for 22 years never liked neighbour next door butee were civil about three years ago her bf moved in he seems to be the sort that tries to throe his weight about like two years ago a boundary wall between ourproprties blew down durin a storm claimed it was theres although they werent tnere when wall was builtit was built 3 decades ago the then neighbour bbuilt it bumy parents paid him as it was on our side of boundary he was paid to do itas he was a builder before retiring earlier i was out back theres a fence joining our gardens with a gate again my parents paid for fence to be done about 25 years agoi let his dog into my garden not thinkingit would be issue through gate he wasnt happy about his told dog to o back into theyre garden then made a commentabout me not having a fenc e he then wrnt inside a little while latrr he came back out sat down and gav e a look as if he was annoyed at me sitting in my own garden went back inside again the dog came back outi was speaking to him dog was told to go back inside door was shut 2_min of me going back in he was back outside in his garden how do u deal with peiple like that ive tried being civil and freindly but find him tude arrogant and aggressive

What’s the issue? I found your OP a touch difficult to grasp!

the main issue is his attitude claiming boundary wall at front of house and fence at back are his there on my side of boundary my parents paid for both to be built hes only lived there three yeaes wasnt there when wakl or fence were bilt doesnt own property but hes trying to throw his weight about elling me whats what i dont want any hastle but not going to have a neighbour beha ing like tbat so unsure how to handle situation without causing drama

i dont spiral but do stand my ground as have others whove posted on my boards first you say im incoherent then make it seem like i have issues i love how people like you love to antaganise rather than give advice

So you can spell incoherent and antagonise but you cant spell I've, throw, during etc., never mind your complete lack of punctuation whigh makes your posts incredibly hard to follow.

You're either a bot or someone who wants to waste other people's time with lies. Get a life

I'm sorry, OP, but I've read your posts a couple of times and I honestly can't see why you think your neighbour is a nuisance. He gave you a look when you were sitting in your garden, he made what sounds like a pretty innocuous comment, and he seems to have got the wrong impression about the boundary walls. So what? How exactly has he been arrogant and aggressive?

As I thought

he could ha e asked rather than assume hes arrogant he got annoyed at me talkingto his dog told it to get inside closed door when he gave me look after coming outside it was a look of contempt as if i had no right to sit in my garden sat outside fo3 or 4 min went back in then 2 min within me oing into my home hes sitting outside again

shrugs

Re the wall you need to deal with it as per all boundary issues. Presumably as its yours you'll need to sort the repairs.

Your post was hard to read but if he let his dog into your garden that's not OK and I suggest you replace the gate with a fence panel.

Ignore his looks and try to avoid getting drawn into an argument.

All your posts are very difficult to read.

It would help a lot if. you read them through before you actually posted them as there are so many typos.

Is it a shared garden? If not, why would you let his dog into your garden? It’s not your dog so you just can’t do that. If I’m wrong, please excuse me and correct.

Don’t let his dog into your garden, it’s not your dog.

Obviously he wants to sit in his garden without you talking to his dog so don’t, respect people’s privacy

Repair the fence so you can all sit in your own gardens in peace

i respect peoples privacy but try and be civil he gave me dog over earlier that day so obviously didnt think it would be an issue allowing itback in garden when it clearly wanted attention (whinning) and was on hi s own even after that i dpoke to dogehile it was in its garden i was in my garden sittingaway from it the neighbour still ook offence to that and told dog to get inside and closed door my fence ill decide what ii do with i thanks

its not shared garden he gave me dog o ver about 30 min before hand literalky handed me her over fence so why make an issue later when i letdog back in garden when it s on itits own and whinning wanting attention itwas doing nobody any harm allowing dog into garden

its no t an issue its not his property thanks anyway

OP… do you not have spell check on your phone?

not using a phone.

What are you on and I can explain how to get spell check?

yeah thats not patronising

It wasn’t meant to be.

I’m still waiting to hear how this neighbour is arrogant, aggressive and a nuisance. He handed you his dog over the fence to look after, but then made an “issue” when you later let the dog back into your garden? Okay, so he’s inconsistent and possibly a bit of a dick, no more than that on what you’ve said so far.

youll wait a long time

Understood.