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Anyone else finding it difficult to sell a larger family home?

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Pickleandwhizz · 11/06/2026 13:55

Anyone struggling to sell their home, ok we have only been on a month and ive not moved for the last 15yrs. We are trying to downsize, we have a 5 bed detached in its own plot with double garage, brand new kitchen and boiler only fitted few days ago, log burner, its a 1980,s home so all the rooms are large, ive parking for 8 cars. Its was initially on for 425 but we reduced to 410, we are happy to take 395 for it but people who come love it yet they cant afford it, they want it for 375 but if i sold for that we couldnt buy what we want. Estate agents are saying people want something for nothing and its because they cant get a mortgage. Anyone else trying to sell?

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Modification24 · 12/06/2026 11:59

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 10:11

If the house is only worth 375 in the current climate then i can accept that but when im looking at 3 beds no garage, tiny interiors for over 300 then no i wont sell, the market has to even out along all types of homes, my EA just put up a reel with a new build, no garage, a living room small, master can only fit a double bed and 1 wardrobe asking 300, someone has commented that its outrageous price for such a house.

But there's every chance that 3 bed is over priced. That said, in my area there's about an 50-80k difference between 3bed new builds and 4bed new builds (or older new builds). When we sold our 16 yr old 4 bed 5yrs ago, the difference was not much either or proportional as 3 beds are by far the bigger demand. Our agent literally said if people don't absolutely need the extra bedroom, it's only worth whatever they're prepared to pay for an extra room they don't need. Sounds like you have a bit of an ambitious agent tbh. Zoopla has a tool that lets you know what agents sell the quickest in an area (the most realistic prices). You obviously don't need to move or sell but when you do, it might help to look at who is shifting the most and quickest.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 12/06/2026 12:02

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 07:40

Tbh its crazy, when you do a price comparison 10mile radius to your home, each day you can now see people trying to undercut prices, the market is saturated with 4 beds. I'd suggest you hold on, prices are drifting down. EA need to get grip on valuations. They are the ones making the problem. If mine today is only worth 375, then a 2 bed is no way worth over 300. That's what is wrong with the market. All the house valuations are out of wack. My EA said my house value was 450 and I told him no way, houses around me are on for 485 same condition and spec. Been on the market over a yr. Crazy situation.

Meanwhile there’s barely any 4 beds near us at all. Even small ones are at least 400.

where are you as price seems very cheap!!!

RoseField1 · 12/06/2026 12:33

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 09:19

Terrible times. There is an older lady who i see on my dog walk, she is also selling near me, her home is lovely, obviously decor is an older persons choice but bathrooms and kitchen are modern, she has not had 1 viewing, seeing the size of her property it is worth the price. Its not a small property. I think the other estate agent was right they want something for nothing.

I'm sorry but this is such a boomerish attitude. Her house is not worth the price if nobody wants to even look at it. And the idea that people want something for 'nothing' is so clueless. The cost of my mortgage has increased by 20% on renewal. If I was buying now I'd want a lower price in order to make the monthly payments more affordable. People want to be able to afford the mortgage payments, that's all. It's not entitled to want to be able to afford life.

RoseField1 · 12/06/2026 12:36

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 09:24

If that was the case why is the market saturated in 4/5 beds there is a home not far from me, its on for 375 not sold been on for over a yr. Its 5 bed with parking for 3 cars, newer build than mine, stunning kitchen, bathroom modern, not sold. People in this area do not have the money.

Eh? The market is saturated because nobody can afford the prices, therefore they are overpriced! That's what overpriced means!

Modification24 · 12/06/2026 12:45

RoseField1 · 12/06/2026 12:36

Eh? The market is saturated because nobody can afford the prices, therefore they are overpriced! That's what overpriced means!

Add in the fact not everyone wants new builds or aging new builds. Nothing against them....but having owned one previously - I wouldn't again. I certainly would want to pay £1800pm for one ....

RoseField1 · 12/06/2026 13:05

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 10:11

If the house is only worth 375 in the current climate then i can accept that but when im looking at 3 beds no garage, tiny interiors for over 300 then no i wont sell, the market has to even out along all types of homes, my EA just put up a reel with a new build, no garage, a living room small, master can only fit a double bed and 1 wardrobe asking 300, someone has commented that its outrageous price for such a house.

That's just not how it works though. If smaller properties are more desirable and more scarce they will fetch better prices. It doesn't follow that if big expensive houses are worth less than smaller cheaper houses will be worth the same proportion less.

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 13:05

Thebigonesgetaway · 12/06/2026 11:37

No she said if she saw house with 8 cars parked outside.

Ive never said there was 8 cars outside, its has potential for multiple cars, if you have a large home id expect that not a new build with a postage stamp for parking that has become the norm.

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Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 13:07

RoseField1 · 12/06/2026 13:05

That's just not how it works though. If smaller properties are more desirable and more scarce they will fetch better prices. It doesn't follow that if big expensive houses are worth less than smaller cheaper houses will be worth the same proportion less.

Clearly it does because my estate agent just posted a shoe box at 300k and the comments suggest it should be lower.

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RoseField1 · 12/06/2026 13:08

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 13:07

Clearly it does because my estate agent just posted a shoe box at 300k and the comments suggest it should be lower.

If that shoebox sells then it's not overpriced.

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 13:15

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 12/06/2026 12:02

Meanwhile there’s barely any 4 beds near us at all. Even small ones are at least 400.

where are you as price seems very cheap!!!

We are in south wales near cardiff

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Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 13:17

RoseField1 · 12/06/2026 13:08

If that shoebox sells then it's not overpriced.

It isnt thats the point the whole market needs to shift, EA are overpricing. Its a great home for a first timer but they cant afford 300.

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Modification24 · 12/06/2026 13:32

@RoseField1is right I'm sorry to say OP. Selection of 3 bed terrace houses (older new builds) vs 4 beds detached. Actual sold prices. Not listings. All the same street within a year. I live in the south west and this stacks up for all the major towns within 1 hr. 3 beds generally are disproportionationately more.

Anyone else finding it difficult to sell a larger family home?
Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 12/06/2026 13:40

My DM had her large detached 6 bedroom house valued recently. Valued about right. Estate agents were keen to try to sell it. But a smaller cheaper different style property (overvalued imo) sold recently and I don’t think hers would sell as quickly. It’s not modernised as per the other houses in the street. As people say, it’s a big house. Doesn’t need a huge amount of work though. She’s SE London though (West Dulwich) so large families would prob buy.

AnonyMumAuDHD · 12/06/2026 13:51

Pickleandwhizz · 12/06/2026 11:12

Yeah i get it COL etc has had a massive impact, glad we have a backup plan if it didnt sell, if you have to due to finances its soul destroying, yrs of work down the pan.

Yes - I agree, I really feel for our neighbours with the 12 yo as I am not sure how they will manage now. Even finished it would be slow to move in this market - and they are snookered as they will struggle to breakeven selling at this point and property developers will smell blood and be cutthroat in their offers.

The property market has just belly flopped at a time when so many people need to downsize (COL) and it’s the bigger properties that are impacted most. The ‘mansion tax’ will not have helped as people are worried that if they buy any property that is over £1m, they are at risk. My feeling is that RR will definitely keep reducing that threshold from £2m over time until absolutely anyone who is a property owner will have to pay a tax. Labour is not the party of asset ownership so they will do nothing.

In the interim, mortgage holidays or converting to interest only (though these are a bit rare now) can help with the monthly outgoings if a seller needs to bide their time while waiting for a buyer or for the market to pick up again- but none of it is ideal.

Seaside3 · 12/06/2026 13:56

I don't think it's 'years of work down the pan'. You lived in a home, paid foe thw upkeep and presumably to make it how you like it. That's just life. Sometimes you get money back for your work, sometimes you don't. You invested in a quality of life that suited you, now you need to invest in a lifestyle that suits your current lifestyle.

AprilMizzel · 12/06/2026 14:25

People in this area do not have the money.

That will be the problem then - no buyer with enough money.

You may just have to wait to that one out of town buyer or that one who does comes along.

When IL and DP looked at downsizing with the costs and markets at time late 50/early 60s it just didn't work - there were in three beds so stayed got used to the space- and now we are starting to issues - one location -- one stairs.

The houses here not selling have older people in and the decors are dated - and frankly with cost of work going through roof last few years I can see why people are put off. MIL kept on the garden would sell a friends house - lovely garden but the two parenst working demographgic thye were selling to wasn't bothered by a nice old style garden and put minimal one in very quickly.

We're in S wales - our 4 bed semi would be worth at most 260K - ex council estate - 2 car parking - the extra room - a side extension not loft - adds about 30 K to the house price on this estate.

xGoGox · 12/06/2026 15:09

Slightly off topic, but how have you found living in such a home?

We are thinking of buying a large home in the future however we aren’t sure because we’d be spending close to a million and that’s a lot of commitment for many many years mortgage-wise.

more on topic, we have decided not to sell right now because the market is DEAD slow and everything is reduced where we are

BurntBroccoli · 12/06/2026 15:25

DrySherry · 12/06/2026 07:58

I think if you would be happy with 395k (ie you would be happy you hadn't given it away) and someone has offered 375k - that a really close offer. Quite a strong offer considering the market.
The reason the 2 beds have not fallen so much is simply about affordability. Smaller 2 beds are popular from 2 angles at the moment. Downsizers want them as cost of living and inflation has made life tighter. First time buyers want them as the traditional first step into a flat has become a bad move financially - so 2 beds have become the sweet spot in the market. I can only see that becoming more pronounced in the near future as interest rates are forecast to go up twice this year and inflation is going to take another leap.

I think smaller 3 beds are still selling well too as you can use the (usually tiny) 3rd bedroom as an office.

backformoreofthesame · 12/06/2026 15:39

If you are expected to take less than asking I am pretty sure most of the smaller properties will also end up going for less than advertised

and when you say you can’t afford to take less - because clearly selling at 360 and buying at 300 will have lots left after all costs - I don’t quite know where you are coming from

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 12/06/2026 16:32

AprilMizzel · 12/06/2026 14:25

People in this area do not have the money.

That will be the problem then - no buyer with enough money.

You may just have to wait to that one out of town buyer or that one who does comes along.

When IL and DP looked at downsizing with the costs and markets at time late 50/early 60s it just didn't work - there were in three beds so stayed got used to the space- and now we are starting to issues - one location -- one stairs.

The houses here not selling have older people in and the decors are dated - and frankly with cost of work going through roof last few years I can see why people are put off. MIL kept on the garden would sell a friends house - lovely garden but the two parenst working demographgic thye were selling to wasn't bothered by a nice old style garden and put minimal one in very quickly.

We're in S wales - our 4 bed semi would be worth at most 260K - ex council estate - 2 car parking - the extra room - a side extension not loft - adds about 30 K to the house price on this estate.

My and my mum’s neighbours have artificial grass and paving as it’s easier to maintain. I have paving too mind you (was already there).

BurntBroccoli · 12/06/2026 16:58

fashionqueen0123 · 12/06/2026 09:24

Exactly - if you price it too high then people won’t even be able to get the mortgage for it!

Totally. The market isn’t going to suddenly go up! There are some houses near me priced 100-150k over what they paid 4/5 years ago. The market hasn’t risen that much since then. The owners seem to forget people can just check zoopla or right move to see what they paid! No wonder they aren’t selling.

There’s even a link on RightMove now to check.

ajandjjmum · 12/06/2026 18:29

xGoGox · 12/06/2026 15:09

Slightly off topic, but how have you found living in such a home?

We are thinking of buying a large home in the future however we aren’t sure because we’d be spending close to a million and that’s a lot of commitment for many many years mortgage-wise.

more on topic, we have decided not to sell right now because the market is DEAD slow and everything is reduced where we are

30 years ago today (!) we moved into our 'forever' home. Not quite forever infact, as we're thinking of selling it over the next couple of years. It has been a fantastic family home, that provided a wonderful base for our family. We extended to accommodate my Mum in a separate space, and we've been very happy here. Costly though - but in our minds, well worth it. We did it at the right time, our DC were 4 and 5 when we moved in, so that had the joy of lots of space as they grew up.

rainingsnoring · 13/06/2026 00:03

TheWildZebra · 12/06/2026 10:02

Thanks - yes that’s right. She did have an offer and went through nearly to completion (she signed the contract and they didn’t). They wanted nearly £100k off the asking price at the last minute, which would’ve made the house my mum wanted to buy unaffordable. They also demanded a decision on the day, and when mum said she needed to think about it, they pulled out. Brutal!

hope you have a far better experience, and just remember it’s not “you” xxx

Your mum's previous buyer's behaved terribly. It's horribly stressful when buyers or sellers behave like this at the last minute.
The basic point remains that houses that have been on the market for a year without selling are over priced. Prices have become so out of kilter with wages and most people can't or won't stretch more now.

rainingsnoring · 13/06/2026 00:12

pussymum · 12/06/2026 08:55

As a ‘baby boomer’ I would like to downsize, as all following generations are complaining that I’m living in a home that is too big for me and I should be happy living in a little shoebox.

There are 2 problems here: 1. I have a lifetime of memories locked in my ‘stuff’ that would have no hope of fitting in a shoebox: 2. No house builders are building bungalows and where I live bungalows are continually being bought and converted into houses so the pool of housing I’d like is reducing year on year, now you’re telling me it’s my own fault for buying a big house and tough that no one can afford to buy it?

so what exactly is your answer?

(all this is hypothetical- I don’t live in a big detached home but the facts still stand. )

'now you’re telling me it’s my own fault for buying a big house and tough that no one can afford to buy it?'

Why do some boomers have such a victim attitude?

The pp explained about wages having stagnated and how there is a general problem with a lack of affordability of housing and then said this:
'Now that some baby boomers are ready to downsize, they’re struggling to find a ready pool of buyers because younger folk are too broke and they don’t have the equity to upsize or even get on the ladder.'
This is all factually correct. Where is the section where anyone has said that this situation is all your fault?
I agree with you about the lack of suitable housing for older people in many areas. That is a result of poor planning. People are extending bungalows because of the same affordability problem.
Clearly, there is no ready solution that will please all parties. But, the basic fact remains that, if a property isn't selling over a period of months/years, it isn't worth the price in the great majority of cases.

YourWinter · 13/06/2026 00:31

I think £425k (525, or even 825) is tricky because people would be searching eg Rightmove for prices up to £400k and that little bit over means yours is missed. DD has just put hers up for £525k and I’ve said the same to her, but what do I know? I imagine pricing it just under, £395k you’re more likely to get interest and then the serious buyer prepared to go over will be paying £400k plus. Good luck!

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