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Our landlord wants us to leave during the viewings

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olyaro · 25/04/2026 07:22

Our landlord has put the flat up for sale and viewings are due to start soon. Yesterday we were told that we’re expected to leave the property during the viewings.

This would be quite difficult for us. I work from home in the mornings, and in the afternoons my child is back from nursery, so leaving the flat so regularly would be a big problem for me. This is in addition to getting the place ready for each viewing, which already takes quite a bit of time and effort. And to be honest, I’m also not comfortable with people coming into our home while we’re not there.

We’re happy to cooperate with viewings at reasonable times, but we’d prefer to stay in the flat while they take place. What do you think?

OP posts:
Feelinggoodabout2026 · 27/04/2026 23:41

Wow this is an eye opener to me. We terminated our contract once we knew we were expecting twins and knew the house would be too small for all of us. The landlord turned very mean. We could have stayed there for 6 months more but he insisted on viewings straight away as this was the best time to get tenants and they wanted us out. We were made to feel like terrible people for not accommodating viewings from day one. This was the height of Covid and he knew I had miscarried multiple times and was stressed. They always knew they would get unlimited access 5-7 days later (can’t remember exactly) when we went to my home country for 3 weeks. Still pestered us for those few days.
I genuinely felt awful and was made to feel like (by him and the agency) we were being very unreasonable. He then later tried to reclaim the whole deposit but luckily got almost none of it (we got the help from neighbours and handyman that countered his arguments). Still very stressful all around and I’m embarrassed to admit how much I still dislike this man.

RoseField1 · 28/04/2026 05:21

Partypants83 · 27/04/2026 22:05

You're missing the point.
I want to sell the flat. I can't afford to keep it empty while I do this because I don't have £700+ a month for the service charges.
If they don't agree to allow viewings I would have to evict them. Then I'd have to relet the flat and evict them if they won't show prospective buyers the flat. And so on endlessly.
I think what you are advocating is completely callous

Well you can't do that legally now anyway - if you evict your tenant you can't relet it for a year. The law now recognises that it's wrong for landlords to mismanage people's homes the way you're proposing to, by evicting tenants who refuse to allow you to do something you don't have the right to do.
When you sell the house you pay back the service charge and council tax that you owe. That's totally normal and expected when this type of property is sold.

loislovesstewie · 28/04/2026 06:43

Partypants83 · 27/04/2026 22:05

You're missing the point.
I want to sell the flat. I can't afford to keep it empty while I do this because I don't have £700+ a month for the service charges.
If they don't agree to allow viewings I would have to evict them. Then I'd have to relet the flat and evict them if they won't show prospective buyers the flat. And so on endlessly.
I think what you are advocating is completely callous

I think you should read the law of landlord and tenant, because quite frankly, I don't think you have and if you haven't, then you should not be a landlord. That's a pretty basic part of letting properties : knowing your responsibilities as a landlord.

Wednesday505 · 28/04/2026 06:50

Tortephant · 25/04/2026 09:13

I think you are being completely unreasonable and selfish.
I really don’t understand your mindset here at all.
Why do you want to make it difficult for your landlord? Why do you want to be there and why would you not keep it clean and tidy?

from the other perspective viewing a property with a tenant present is an awful experience.

Make it difficult and you may find yourself being served notice.

A very ignorant response

BrownBookshelf · 28/04/2026 07:55

saraclara · 27/04/2026 23:08

Anyone who lets a property should be entering into it knowing that the property will be empty at times. Whether it's between tenants or when they want to sell. It should factor into the rent asked for, and how the landlord accounts for it. It would be silly not to put some of the rent aside every month for this eventuality. I don't understand how you could assume that you would never not have the rent coming in.

This is good advice, particularly with the upcoming law changes.

Wot23 · 28/04/2026 12:33

it is your home
you have 100% control over timings and any conditions you wish to impose on the conduct of viewings.

do you "need" the landlord to remain cooperative? If not tell them to jog off.
consider changing the locks so they cannot sneak in (but retain the old lock and refit it before you finally vacate)

Hayfield123 · 28/04/2026 18:01

Yeahyeahyeahnooooo · 25/04/2026 08:16

Unless you're getting reduced rent or some other favourable conditions as a sweetener I'd be telling them to fuck off with their viewings.

Exactly this

daleylama · 29/04/2026 00:11

RoseField1 · 27/04/2026 10:55

No it really doesn't.

yes it obviously does

rainingsnoring · 29/04/2026 04:03

daleylama · 29/04/2026 00:11

yes it obviously does

Legally, it makes no difference at all, as @RoseField1 said, and has also been said by multiple posters on this thread.

SouthernNights59 · 29/04/2026 04:49

It wouldn't bother me at all. I really don't understand all these thing which renters seem to find so difficult to do Confused

RoseField1 · 29/04/2026 05:00

daleylama · 29/04/2026 00:11

yes it obviously does

No, tenancy law supersedes any clause in a tenancy agreement which is unreasonable.

RoseField1 · 29/04/2026 05:00

SouthernNights59 · 29/04/2026 04:49

It wouldn't bother me at all. I really don't understand all these thing which renters seem to find so difficult to do Confused

Are you a renter?

TeaCupTinsel · 29/04/2026 05:45

We're currently selling our house and due to being disabled, I can't go out unless my partner is home from work to take me out...so plenty of viewings have taken place when I'm at home. I just keep out their way as they move around!

countrygirl99 · 29/04/2026 05:54

Tortephant · 25/04/2026 09:51

For calling out selfishness and a total lack of respect?

It's the landlord who's doing that. Not the person paying the landlord their hard earned money.

Radarqueen · 29/04/2026 05:57

Tortephant · 25/04/2026 09:23

Yes and OP clearly likes a game. I’m astonished by her attitude.

Why? The landlord is acting unlawfully, and making her life difficult, why should she bend over backwards for him?

Radarqueen · 29/04/2026 05:59

Tortephant · 25/04/2026 09:51

For calling out selfishness and a total lack of respect?

He's their landlord, not their priest or their venerable grandfather. They pay him rent. You like people with money and perceived authority, don't you?

CoverLikelyZebra · 29/04/2026 05:59

Clearinguptheclutter · 25/04/2026 07:26

Unless your contract says you have to leave, say no

there could potentially be a LOT

Even if your contract says something about this @olyaro you do not have to, that would be an unenforceable term. You have the right to quiet enjoyment of your home. Your landlords rights are very limited and do not include any right to expect you to cooperate in any processes to do with the property being sold. Simply saying "no" is fine - no to viewings altogether (he can arrange viewings after he has evicted you) or just no to leaving during them because you have your life and schedules to deal with, if you are willing for them to happen. You certainly don't need to do any more tidying/cleaning than you normally do. If there's any level of cooperation that you'd be willing to offer, make sure you think through what a reasonable price tag would be to offer that which will leave you financially better off proportionately to the effort/inconvenience you might consider agreeing to. Your landlords is making many thousands of pounds out of this deal and it's reasonable for you to expect a slice if you do him any favour to facilitate it.

Radarqueen · 29/04/2026 06:05

Partypants83 · 25/04/2026 21:02

I haven't read all the posts but let's screw the landlord because they are a bastard, yes?
Well, a bit of thought goes a long way.
I've been trying to sell my mums sheltered flat since she died 3 years ago. You can't keep it vacant and for sale for long because you have to pay service charges and council tax while it's vacant. In mums case, £700 p/month. Who on earth has that spare?
So you rent it and in the tenancy agreement, it says the tenant agrees to allow viewings for the last 3 months of the tenancy.
The tenant did allow viewings (painfully few) but either told the prospective buyer loudly there were mice (there aren't) or reclined as if dying, groaning, in the front room. The agents suggested she stepped outside for the viewing but no.
Job done, the tenant resumed their lives and the buyer retreated but fed back they didn't feel comfortable with buying from a dying person.
Sometimes in the future, this might seem amusing. Not now. I'm still left with my lovely mum's flat like a noose around my neck (she would be horrified with all this), tenants I don't want and a flat I can't sell.
Btw, I don't blame the tenant, she didn't want to lose her home but the fatuous anti landlord comments on here are infuriating. There are exploitative landlords and those who aren't.

But you have suggested that you would be quite happy to be exploitative.
Your tenant sounds very difficult but that doesn't change the law or confer any obligations on OP. It's a shame you're in this difficult situation because it sounds like you really can't afford to own the property but that is not the tenant's fault. You can't admit to how much you need their money and then try to dismiss their rights in the same breath.

Tortephant · 29/04/2026 07:53

Radarqueen · 29/04/2026 05:59

He's their landlord, not their priest or their venerable grandfather. They pay him rent. You like people with money and perceived authority, don't you?

The landlords financial position (that none of us know) is irrelevant.
I'm talking about common basic respect for others. Helping out, supporting… just basics of humanity.

BrownBookshelf · 29/04/2026 07:56

Tortephant · 29/04/2026 07:53

The landlords financial position (that none of us know) is irrelevant.
I'm talking about common basic respect for others. Helping out, supporting… just basics of humanity.

Not putting your tenant in a position where they have to worry about their possessions being nicked is common basic respect.

sueelleker · 29/04/2026 08:00

Partypants83; I presume there are different rules for different types of sheltered housing, but when my late Mum bought her flat it was stipulated that it had to be sold back to the housing association on her death or moving out. (BTW, it was hilarious when we took her to see a show flat; the woman taking us round kept saying " and if you move out"; never once mentioning that the occupant might die. Since the flats were for people over 65, this of course was what was running through eveyrone's minds.)

Tortephant · 29/04/2026 08:00

Radarqueen · 29/04/2026 05:57

Why? The landlord is acting unlawfully, and making her life difficult, why should she bend over backwards for him?

Her landlord is perfectly reasonably wanting to sell the property he/she owns.
yes OP is paying him to live in his/her property, and with a clause that allows visits/inspections and viewings. common respect is to be helpful and supportive of what they are doing.
OP knows she is moving and is also viewing properties so can surely appreciate the challenges of that from the other perspective to.
But hey, karma, she wants to be difficult and awkward for a good landlord, perhaps she will get a terrible landlord next time and she will deserve it but no doubt take zero responsibility. At least she will have something else to moan about on here. that’s obviously her hobby, it’s clearly not a team sport or a family activity is it.

Tortephant · 29/04/2026 08:02

BrownBookshelf · 29/04/2026 07:56

Not putting your tenant in a position where they have to worry about their possessions being nicked is common basic respect.

It’s a property viewing!
if she is that concerned then cameras are cheap and easy to install.
how do you think anybody moves (rental or owned) with that attitude? How do you, or OP expect to view properties?

SheilaFentiman · 29/04/2026 08:08

Tortephant · 29/04/2026 08:02

It’s a property viewing!
if she is that concerned then cameras are cheap and easy to install.
how do you think anybody moves (rental or owned) with that attitude? How do you, or OP expect to view properties?

That’s been explained to you the last time that you asked it. If you own a property, it’s in your interest to be inconvenienced by the sale process, because you stand to make a profit/move to where you want to. If you rent, then you don’t have that interest.

yes OP is paying him to live in his/her property, and with a clause that allows visits/inspections and viewings. common respect is to be helpful and supportive of what they are doing

I don’t believe op has mentioned a clause about allowing viewings (as other posters have pointed out, it’s not enforceable even if it exists, but you are stating that it does exist without basis, I believe)

It’s OP’s home and workplace - the landlord is not giving her “common respect”

BrownBookshelf · 29/04/2026 08:08

Tortephant · 29/04/2026 08:02

It’s a property viewing!
if she is that concerned then cameras are cheap and easy to install.
how do you think anybody moves (rental or owned) with that attitude? How do you, or OP expect to view properties?

Properties can be viewed either with vacant possession or with the residents there when people come to see it, did you not know that?

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